Ebersole Excerpts

A Few Remnants from an Unforgettable Weekend...

2012-02-09T12:43:00.003-05:00

This past weekend was AWESOME!!

We went to Harbor Creek for the weekend.

Our travels began and then stopped and then started again. We encountered a traffic back up on Route 222 about 20 minutes in to our trip. There was a disabled tractor-trailer in one of the north bound lanes of 222.

I was not amused. We had places to be!

We stopped at Sheetz for a bite to eat and then Cabela's (since we we right there). We followed the GPS to our destination for the evening - the Holiday Inn Express in Clearfield, PA. We arrived shortly after 10:15 pm. The hotel was right off of Interstate 80 and was really nice.

We checked in, Jerry and the boys brought the luggage up to the room and we settled in for the night.

7:00 the next morning came very quickly and one by we we arose, showered, and prepared for the next leg of our adventure.

The had a "Deluxe" Continental Breakfast available in the morning. I went down after my shower and got a cup of coffee (which was terrible) and a warm cinnamon roll (which was delicious). Jerry and the boys went down after I came back and got bacon, sausage, eggs, cinnamon rolls, bagels and who knows what else. I do remember Austin saying he had like 20 pieces of bacon.

We checked out of the hotel around 8:45. Jerry told me about a gun shop that is located in Clearfield that is amazing. We got to Grice's Gun Shop a little before 9:00 and waited for them to open.

A little back story. I have been looking at a Ruger LCR pistol for a while now. I just wasn't ready to purchase one.

Well, apparently Friday was the day to purchase. I went in, looked at the gun and started filling out the paperwork to purchase a firearm.

That part made me really nervous. Is there some deep, dark secret that I am hiding that would not allow me to buy this gun? Nope. Background checked clear.

"Oh by the way," the salesman told me, "we got an shipment of 30 Ruger LCR's with the Crimson Trace on them last night, they aren't even in our system. Are you interested in one of those?".

I have no idea.

Side conference with Jerry.

Me: "Should I get the Crimson Trace?"
Jerry: "I would."
Me: "Okay I'll take the one with the Crimson Trace."

What? Do I really look like I know what the hell I am talking about? I guess so because they rang up the sale and entrusted me to walk out of that store with a firearm. Holy shit.

They totally let me walk out of that store with a pistol, a holster AND ammunition.

Lord help you all.

Additionally, while we were at the gun shop, there was ONE other woman (older - like 65) looking at the LCR's. She also apparently thought I was a gun aficionado, because she asked ME questions like "What kind of gun are you looking at? Where are you going to carry the gun? In your purse?". Once again - holy shit! I am not a gun expert. Maybe I should be flattered that she thought I was.

Anyways...we left Grice's - and I felt kind of scared, kind of empowered. I OWNED A GUN!

We drove north, following the GPS - and it was great - not driving our "regular" routes, seeing new scenery, family bonding time...oh wait I think the boys slept.

We arrived on Firman Road a little after 1:00 pm. My Dad, Maggie and Eli were there to greet us.

Maggie asked Aidan if he would like to go with her to pick Charlie up from school at 3:00. He said he would. Maggie said she had some shopping to do, so we stayed with Dad and Eli.

We visited - it was good - really good.

There are more stories and pictures to share, but I need to end this post before it drags on and on and on...you get the picture.

This last photo is the mountain of clean laundry I was left to put away after our excursion. It looks worse than it was. It is on top of my cedar chest.

It was good - really good.

Finding Myself Before 40...

2011-11-07T15:26:00.001-05:00

Here begins a new chapter in the life of Tracy Lynne Myers-Ebersole.

I am starting a "new" job.

The reason for the "new" is it really isn't a new job. I have been doing it on and off for the past 18 months. It was in addition to the job I had as a server in the elementary cafeteria.

Now as prestigious as it may sound, working in an elementary school cafeteria, it was definitely leaving me feel well, unfulfilled.

I knew that I wanted more for myself and my family, but just wasn't sure how to go about getting it.

Enter the new job.

I wasn't expecting it, but it kind of just fell into my lap. A phone call, an offer, praying about said offer, talking to my husband and sons about it...it was meant to be. All in God's time, all in God's time.

I quit my job at the school. My last day was this past Friday.

So now I will start my new journey tomorrow. Tuesday, November 8, 2011.

But in the meantime, I was beginning to wonder, who am I? What do I enjoy doing in my spare time? What will make me happy?

You see with this new job, I will have two or three day each week to MYSELF!

And now I am asking all those questions. I have spent a lot of time making things happen for other people who live in my household and now, I am going to go on a journey to find out who I am, what I like, what makes me happy.

I am assuming that it will not be a quick adventure, but it WILL be exciting! Who doesn't want to find out what they are all about. Granted, I am going to be 40 in just a few short months, but at least it's a start!

I am also in the process of updating our blog. It is kind of frustrating, but I will get it. I know I will.

Patience my friends, patience.

Three Things - 10/28/2011

2011-10-28T08:08:00.000-04:00

Another Friday is here! Why does it seem that as I get older, the days, weeks, months just rush by?

Oh well, here we go!

Three Things I Am Loving:
1. Act 80 Days. Today ACE and I both have an ACT 80 1/2 day. Which means school for us is done at 1:00. I love days like this!

2. Making classroom treats. Okay maybe I don't particularly love making the treats, but what I did love was the gratitude. ACE came downstairs to find me frosting the cookies (which is a chore that takes me FOREVER!). He leans over my shoulder, inspects them and says "Mom, you're the best" My heart melted, I grinned from ear to ear, I leaned over, kissed him on the cheek and said "I love you so much". I would have made 30 more right there on the spot if he would have asked me to.

3. Roses from my husband. Well, not actually purchased by him, but he brought them home!

Three Things I Am Not Loving:
1. Uncertainty. Dislike it very much. Turnin' it over to God I tell ya!

2. Cold weather. I like being on our toasty home, but hustling out to a cold car, driving in a cold car (until it warms up), running in to wherever I am going - not ideal.

3. The rapidly approaching holidays. LOVE the holiday season, it's just the stressful part preceding it. Guess it's another thin\g to turn over to God...

That's a wrap! A fun-filled weekend of a little lacrosse, a little pumpkin carving and family time. Son #1 will be thrilled!

Have a great weekend!!!

It's OK Thursday {4}

2011-10-27T06:59:00.000-04:00

Another week - flown by - we're still here doing our thing. And our thing has been going good this week.

It's OK...

...to be sad that Halloween is almost here and I will put my adorable decoration away for another year

...to realize than within that year, my eldest son will turn 16 and I will turn 40 - ughhhhh.

...to be more than slightly addicted to Pinterest

...to enjoy Bible Study when there are only a few women there

...to be super excited that the new kitchen employee (dishwasher) starts today and I won't need to do that job anymore

...this is Son #1's first week of indoor lacrosse & Son #2's last

-to be a little nervous about Son #1 playing indoor lacrosse again after last season's devastating injury

...to be giddy when I have a menu planned for the whole week and shop accordingly

...we may get some flurries this weekend

...it's our last home football game this Friday - and it's homecoming!

...to secretly love going to the homecoming festivities to socialize with my mom friends

So that's it. Hope you enjoyed the read!

What We Ate - 10/25/2011

2011-10-26T07:56:00.000-04:00

I took a couple pictures of last night's supper. Because I'm like that!

Our menu was Diner Meatloaf (I got the basic recipe from Taste of Home, but needed to modify it a little bit due to lack of a couple ingredients (who knew I was going to use ALL of the garlic to make garlic bread to accompany our lasagna the night before?).

First you chop up one large onion (next time I will only use 1/2) and one rib of celery. I sauteed them in a tablespoon of butter since we were out of olive oil (not my fault! SOMEONE used all the olive oil and neglected to tell me so I could put it on the shopping list). Saute until tender.

While the onions and celery are gettin' their groove on, you mix (2) eggs, 3/4 c. bread crumbs, 1/3 c. ketchup, 1 tsp. dried parsley, 1 tsp. salt, 1/2 tsp. pepper and 1/4 tsp. ground nutmeg. I didn't take a picture of this mixture because frankly - it looked gross. You then cool the onion and celery mixture and add it. Lastly you add 2 pounds of ground beef and mix well. I use my hands because they work so much better than a spoon.

I then transferred the mixutre from my mixing bowl to my brand new Pampered Chef Fluted Stoneware Pan (I wanted to start seasoning it!).

It baked at 350 degrees for 1 hour 15 minutes. While it baked, I made a box of Hungry Man Au Gratin Potatoes and a pack of Pillsbury Grands Jr. Biscuits.

I also made a little sauce to spoon on top of the meatloaf if so desired. Tomato Soup, a little canola oil (brecause once again - out of olive oil!) and some Pampered Chef Seasoning - Crushed Peppercorn and Garlic. I brought that to a simmer on the stove.

The supper was met with mixed receptions.

Jerry and I loved all of it.

Austin ate a piece of the meatloaf and devoured the potatoes.

Aidan ate about half of his piece of meatloaf and had a couple biscuits. He doesn't like potatoes.

Will I make this recipe again - ehhh - probably not.

Extra Entry for A Giveaway

2011-10-25T07:00:00.000-04:00

As soon as I saw this giveaway on one of the blogs I follow, I knew I had to do eveyrything in my power to win!

My cousin's wife had one this past weekend and I thought it was adorable!

If you are interested in trying to win this adorable market tote, head on over to Jenna's Journey.

Here is the link to the Etsy shop where these totes are created: Sewing A Seed.

Weekend Recap

2011-10-24T08:01:00.001-04:00

We had a marvelous weekend. Not a lot of running around to do. Just enough. We spent Saturday working around the house in the morning & early afternoon. We made a couple treats to take to Haley & Jenn's Pampered Chef party. It was a great day.

It makes me laugh that we don't spend more time over in York with Clark, Haley & their families. I mean come on, it takes an hour to get there.

That's on my list of "Things to make life rich". Spend more time with family. It does a soul good.

Jerry took a few pictures while we were there. (Of course it was a family affair since Maggie, Steve, Charlie and Eli were going to be there!)

We arrived at Aunt Brigette's house a little before 4:00 and stayed until about 9:30. It was such a great time.

This was after the party. The kids were all playing musical chairs.

Charlie became fast friends with Landon.

Clark - what a handsome guy.

Eli finally warmed up to me at the end. He is so funny!

I may have given him some watered down soda -

for which his mother gave me a punch in the back!

I think something was lost in translation - she said

"No pop". She didn't say anything about soda!

Camron loved Austin. I was surprised that Austin was

picking him up and carrying him around.

He has claimed to not really like little kids.

I think he is putting up a front.

And my sweet boy. He was so tired after playing with all the kids.

He fell asleep almost immediately after we got in the car to

come home. When we pulled in our driveway and woke him, he said

"We're home already? How'd we get home so quick?".

Sunday was spent enjoying coffee, donuts and the newspaper. ACE had lacrosse camp in the afternoon and one of his teammates asked if he would like to come over after practice, have pizza and watch football. He was eager to do that. Jerry and I got Little Caesar's for the rest of us (Austin coined "Caesar Sunday").

I watched a couple more of Oprah's Lifeclasses (that Oprah - she's amazing!).

I am going to earnestly strive to apply the things I have learned so far from her. She is so inspirational.

We capped off our Sunday by celebrating Pop-Pop Ebersole's 82nd Birthday with cupcakes made by our SWEET niece Julie Ann.

A fulfilling and restful weekend.

That's what I'm talkin' about.

Three Things - 10/20/2011

2011-10-21T07:49:00.001-04:00

Three Things I'm Loving This Week:

1. Bath & Body Works Sales. I went to Bath & Body this past Sunday with the intention of only buying two of their large candles. I came out with a couple small anti-bacterial hand gels and this cute Halloween soap dispenser - and the candles. I love their deals~! I am hoping that I can use this through Thanksgiving (I will turn it around to just the plain pumpkin side) and that I can save it for next year & just refill it!

2. Ebersole Impromptu Get-Togethers. Jerry's brother Terry was in town with his wife Carol & their son Zachary earlier this week. On Wednesday night, all of the Ebersole siblings were together along with most of their extended families. It's a good time with lots of laughs.

3. Fall is here! The tree are slowly changing & the temperatures are getting cooler. The township lost a lot of leaves the past couple of days with the high winds we had, but the colors are so beautiful with what leaves are remaining. I am finally figuring out how to adjust the setting on our camera to get the perfect late afternoon shot of the mountain across the street.

Three Things I Am Not Loving:

1. Change of Season Colds. I am been snuffly, coughy, achy - just yucky for a couple weeks now. I dislike taking DayQuil because it makes me feel loopy (at least more loopy than usual!). Now I am stuffed up and have an annoyance cough. Not fun.

2. Change. Even though I am a big cheerleader for change - I don't like it. I have started watching Oprah's Lifeclass on OWN and I am realizing that I have a lot of inner and outer changes that need to happen. Ego vs. True Self? Yeah, it's going to take a lot of changing.

3. Disorganization. For the most part, I am pretty organized. However, I have a couple (as the Flylady would say) "Hotspots" that seem to be a magnet for clutter and paperwork. It is a problem which needs to be remedied this weekend. Even though it is not "comfortable" to get rid of clutter, it is most definitely necessary!

Well that's it from Bullfrog Hollow for the week. Have an amazing weekend!

IT"S OK Thursday

2011-10-20T06:47:00.000-04:00

Three weeks in a row...can you say COMMITMENT??

Here's the latest - and it's okay - because I said so.

It's OK!

...to be obsessed with organizing.

...to be sad some days.

...to wonder if this is "it". Is this the way it's always going to be?

...to want a new car - badly.

...to wonder if I do indeed have a favorite child.

...to want it to snow so badly so we can have a snow day.

...to go to Bible Study for the social time. (Not really getting a bunch out of this book).

...to wonder if we should go to a marriage counselor.

...to love it when it rains.

...to think about stopping my birthday card sending.

...to hope at least 10 people who I'm not related to read our blog.

That's it I think!

Have a wonderful Thursday!!

Because Fortune Cookies Are Bible...

2011-10-19T07:36:00.001-04:00

ACE came home from school yesterday with a fortune from a fortune cookie he got at lunch.

It reads "Something nice is coming to you in the mail".

He thinks this is "Bible" the absolute truth, and that "something nice" is going to magically appear in the mailbox.

I hope he's not disappointed if nothing shows up.

Maybe I'll just get something & send it to him.

Who I am to crush the hopes of an 11 year-old - pinned on a fortune cookie.

Now to rack my brain to find something nice...

Son #2 & Random

2011-10-18T07:46:00.000-04:00

I frequently refer to our youngest son as "Son #2". His real nickname is ACE (which are his initials).

My sweet boy is growing up so fast, and while there are some of personality traits that I would like to see change as he gets older, there are LOTS that I hope he never loses.

Case in Point #1: He is not afraid of what his peers think. Last Friday was Crazy Sock Day at his school. After a bit of a dramatic incident, I thought of these socks I had (thanks Maggie!) and suggested that he wear these. He didn't even hesitate. He sat down on his bedroom floor & threw them on and posed for a couple pictures without much of a fuss.

Case In Point #2: He will stay young at heart. Even though he is 11 (and a lot stronger than me!), he still likes doing things that little kids do. He loved sitting at the Mohnton Halloween Parade and getting lots of CANDY! Secretly I think he loved getting all the candy from kids that know him. I was amazed at all the young girls that would chirp "Hi Aidan!" and throw him candy. His Mama did not think it was fantastic! Oh well, I am pretty sure this will not get any better!

He is wearing Shawn's Halloween basket on his head. He makes me smile.

And then just random - the Halloween cookies that I fantasized about making for the party at my friend Wendy's house after the parade. I saw them in a magazine that I get and thought they would be the perfect treat to take. Little did I know that they were going to take so long to frost. My OCD does not handle the tedious process of frosting these cookies.

So there it is a little bit of Tuesday randomness. After all, I think that word describes us to a "T"!

Weekend Recap

2011-10-17T22:21:00.000-04:00

Good morning all!

We had a fun-filled weekend:

A soup & sandwich sale at the fire company, making cookie treats, Halloween Parade, Halloween Party, Bath & Body Works for the last day of their candle sale (for this month), lacrosse training camp, Little Caesar's pizza & crazy bread, Pop-Pop Ebersole's - bed...aahhhh...

Here's a couple pictures of the delicious candles I got. My computer is being silly, so I will have to post the other pictures later - maybe tomorrow.

Three Things - 10/14/2011

2011-10-14T07:55:00.000-04:00

Three Things I Am Loving This Week:

1. Pampered Chef. My Pampered Chef order came yesterday. Actually it came twice. The first time the Fed-Ex truck pulled up, they delivered two boxes. Both had stoneware in them, but the little gadgets were M-I-A. After a quick call to my sister/consultant, she explained that the third box would probably be here on Friday. I would have to wait until tomorrow to get the rest of my goodies. Then, what's this? SURPRISE!! The Fed-Ex truck pulled up again - with my third box. Squeals of delight & a haphazard opening commenced. I loved all the products & wished I could keep them all! Now I can't wait to try them all out.

2. CVS Extra Care Card. I had the ultimate rush last night. I had CVS Extra Cash Back dollars to use by October 13. I had a scenario worked out in my head, but I wasn't sure if it was really going to work out. So off I went. I bought four bags of M&M's (which they had on sale - 2/$5). I had $7.00 ECB to spend, PLUS I had (2) $1.00 off coupons for the Pretzel M&M's and $1.00 off two bags of any M&M's. So in the end...

...the four bags of M&M's were FREE!! And in actuality, I made $3.00 because I got $3.00 ECB for purchasing $10.00 worth of Mars products.

Four bags of deliciousness - for FUH-REE!!!

3. Homemade Applesauce. We bought a peck of apples for $3.00. Came home, peeled & cored them. Threw them in the crock pot with 1/2 cup of water, 1 cup of sugar and one teaspoon of cinnamon (for 10 apples). The crock pot setting was High for the first batch and it took about 4 hours for the apples to cook down to deliciousness. I just used my hand potato masher to break the apples down a little more and it was the perfect tool. It reminds me of my Gramma Myers' applesauce. The second batch we doubled and started it at 11:00 at night. I just put it on warm overnight and then cranked the heat up when I got up the next morning. The second batch had more pieces f skin & seed casing in it, so I just ran the cooled sauce through my Kitchen Aid Mixer fruit & vegetable strainer. It worked like a charm. I am sure we will get more apples because the sauce won't last long in our house!

Three Things I Am Not Loving This Week:

1. It's October. Now don't get me wrong, I love fall. BUT it's already the middle of October people! I have so many fun Halloween things I want to do and time is running out! I guess I better get a move on it and get those Halloween activities completed.

2. The "Volunteer" Fire Department. My husband has been a volunteer firefighter for umpteen years. This past week it has worked on my last nerve. He was out on a search detail for over six hours. I probably wouldn't have minded it, but it I had an EGD done that morning and wasn't feeling the best and he just left.

I am coming to the realization that it takes a really wonderful person to be a volunteer firefighter, but it takes exceptional people to be a firefighter's family.

3. Last Days. Today is a dear co-worker of mine's last day at work. She and her family are moving and it would not be convenient for her to continue to work at our school. She has become a wonderful friend to me and I will truly miss seeing her each day.

Good luck Ali! I sincerely hope to see you in the future!

IT'S OK Thursday

2011-10-13T07:22:00.000-04:00

My second edition of IT'S OK Thursdays! How bout it? It's like my own little therapy session - without the co-pay!

IT'S OK...

To be sad that a dear friend is leaving our little workplace

To be excited about starting my own adventure - all by myself

To be pissed off that my husband seems to find time to be out at fire calls, but can't seem to get chores done around the house

To LOVE rainy days - I embrace them. I just want to throw on a pair of yoga pants & watch DVR'd stuff with a blanket wrapped around me - of course!!

To love the adrenaline rush of calling 911

To try not to be annoyed with certain people who go on, and on, and on - about something they told me AT LEAST 5 times

To want to listen to Pastor Keith McGarvey's sermons over and over in the car. I will not be a Bible moron forever!

To be annoyed that the new Apple update is taking so freaking long to install on my iPad

To be super pumped that the Mohnton Great Halloween Parade is this weekend. I am making the cutest cookies to share at the party we are going to - in a funeral home!!

To wonder what our lives would be like if we had moved to Erie County

Okay - I think that's it. Going to link up with A Complete Waste of Makeup and then continue to watch the minutes slowly creep down on my iPad update (insert Pirate ARGHHHHHH!!!)

Blog Makeover Time!

2011-10-12T07:41:00.000-04:00

This afternoon I am going to renovate our blog.

It needs a make-over. It's long overdue!

Maybe I'll come up with a topic to blog about in the meantime.

Tuesday Thoughts

2011-10-11T07:54:00.001-04:00

Sometimes I think the most random thoughts. Maybe they aren't random, but I'm sure as I spew them out on to this little blog of mine, they will seem that way.
First of I am starting to really dislike the "volunteer" part of volunteer fire company. I am letting it create great strife in my marriage.

I HATE living away from Harbor Creek. I miss out on all the fun stuff. Right now my family is harvesting grapes. I sat at home last night - alone - while my husband searched for a man in Nolde Forest - for SEVEN HOURS.

The man was located - at home.
Tonight I am attending my first Brecknock Township Recreation Board Meeting.

I am just going to check it out an see if it is something I would like to become involved in. I need a purpose.
I started Oprah's Lifeclass. I love self-help stuff - LOVE IT!!

My EGD from yesterday showed my ulcer is healed. I can start taking Protonix once a day - thank you God!!

I am having a lot of poor me days lately. I need to snap out of it.

I need to compose a better blog post - I will work on it.

EGD Time - again!!

2011-10-10T10:23:00.001-04:00

Aren't these the cutest pictures? I think they are! They show a "healthy" stomach. My ulcer is healed (well at least they think it is).

There is apparently part of my stomach that they can't get see to be 100% certain, but the doctor said everything looks good.

This means that I can go back to taking Protonix only once a day (in the morning). That is good news because I was having a bear of a time remembering to take it 1/2 hour before I ate supper.

From left to right: middle third of the esophagus, middle wide open stricture of the gastro-jejunostony anastomosis, middle wide open stricture of the gastro-jejunostomy anastomosis

Again left to right: jejunum, gastro-esophageal junction

So now I am home, checking a few computer things and enjoying a cup of coffee. I am going to head upstairs and take a nap.

By the way...I can say I have something in common with Michael Jackson. I too have had Propofol. It was a good thing. At least it was for me.

Three Things - 10/07/2011

2011-10-07T07:36:00.001-04:00

Three Things I Am Loving This Week: (Once again - it's four!)

1. This guy. We have been together for 21 years (October 6, 1990). I love the fact that he remembers this day. He still loves me as much (or maybe more) than he did at the beginning.

2. Pampered Chef Fluted Stoneware Pan. I had a Pampered Chef Show this past weekend. My sister Maggie is my Pampered Chef consultant and she did an amazing job demonstrating the wonderful products. One of the items I got (at 60% off) was this Fluted Stoneware Pan. She made the most delicious Apple Cake in this pan - IN THE MICROWAVE! Then as a great consultant always does, she sent me like 50 recipes to use this pan for. Now I will anxiously await the arrival of this so I can use it!

3. Making homemade applesauce. We are going to attempt to make our own applesauce this year. I have stumbled across a few recipes (and even a few to make in the crockpot!). I am going to try and replicate my Gramma Myers' recipe. She made the best applesauce. I loved that it had little small, tender chunks of apples still in the sauce.

4. Air conditioner out of the window. With the threat of a major heat wave out of the picture, I am absolutely thrilled to be able to see out of the east facing window in our living room. I was able to put my sweet light-up pumpkin in his place of honor, greeting all who pass and plug him in. This is a big deal to me. Now to get the one out of our bedroom window!

Three Things I Am Not Loving This Week:

1. Politics. He said, she said. He's running, he's not running. I only have to listen to this for ummm...A WHOLE YEAR?!?!? I feel like I am not smart enough to understand what everyone is talking about and I would just rather not hear it.

2. Saying goodbye. I hate saying goodbye. My sister, brother-in-law and two sweet red-headed nephews were here this past weekend. We had so much fun visiting with them. Charlie and Eli aren't "strange" with us, but still it is hard not being able to see them on a weekly basis. They are so much fun!

3. Bi-weekly paychecks. I am having such a hard time with this. It seems by the beginning of the second week, we are scraping by. I guess after 19 years of the weekly thing, it will take a little getting used to.

IT"S OK Thursday

2011-10-06T07:25:00.000-04:00

It's Thursday! And today - for the first time - I am linking up with Neely from A Complete Waste of Makeup for IT'S OK Thursday. I so enjoy being able to post randomness!

IT'S OK...

That I decided to move my Three Things Day to Friday

I feel like a Bible moron when I go to Bible Study

I love to make lists

I love Fall - the temperatures - the cuisine - the coziness - the colors

I miss my family

I wish I had a best friend

I like being at home by myself - sometimes

I fantasize about winning the lottery and what I would do with the money

I am a "Self-Help" freak

I like paperwork - OK maybe I like to organize paperwork

I am not a good listener

There are many days when I don't think am a good parent

I get disappointed when blogs I follow don't update daily (even though I didn't update mine for like 9 months!)

I have HUGE self-confidence issues

I LOVE Pizza Pringles

I try to eat healthy - but OH those Pizza Pringles!

Okay that's it. Tomorrow I will be back with Three Things.

What to do, what to do

2011-10-05T07:44:00.000-04:00

Aidan got off the bus yesterday almost in tears.

"What's wrong?" I asked.

"Nothing.?" was his reply.

I pressed again. As did his father.

"What's wrong dude?"

"My lunchbox," "It's somewhere on the bus," "and Dave (the wing nut bus driver) wouldn't let me look for it." . Truly award winning I tell you.

He said that other children on the bus said he got on with it, but he looked for it and could not find it.

We have had our share of problems with Dave. One day last school year, he decided to do the afternoon bus route BACKWARDS. You know, drop the last kids off the bus first and the first kids off last.

There were a lot of complaints to the transportation office about that. Shocking. I know.

This year, Aidan got off the bus with his binder an absolute wreck - and wet. The contents were not securely fastened inside. After asking him what happened, he said that the emergency hatch on the roof of the bus leaks (it was raining that day) and Dave jammed on the brakes causing his book bag to fly off the seat, the binder flew out of the bag and opened up.

Now, if he would have had his book bag zippered shut, the binder would not have come out, but still - a leaking bus roof? Jamming on the brakes?

We didn't call transportation that day because I don't think I want to be "that" parent.

Then one who calls and complains over every. little. thing.

But today was different. I think.

Jerry called the transportation office immediately to tell them about the most recent incident.

The kind woman that answers the phone said she would personally go out and check the bus when the driver got back and would call back.

Well after about 45 minutes she called and said the lunch box was not on the bus and she had spoken to the bus driver who told her that he had instructed Aidan that he wasn't to look for his lunch box and he proceeded to do it anyway.

As a parent I struggle with "believing my son and knowing my son" all the time. Did he turn on the water works in order to draw sympathy and not the wrath of Mom?

I am sure Dave told him to not look for his lunch box. But what preceded that conversation? Was the bus moving? I bet it was. I am positive we will never get a straight answer. He doesn't want to get in trouble. And really. What 11 year-old boy does?

Aidan knows what I freak I am about his lunch box. I have lectured him numerous times about taking care of it.

He may very well have left it at school. I mean how observant are a bunch of elementary school kids? Did they really see him get on the bus with it?

The consequence is that today he will have to buy lunch at school - Jerry & I will look like "smacked-asses" because we called to complain - again.

We will see if he gets off the bus this afternoon with a lunch box or not.

Why Do I Care?

2011-10-04T07:56:00.003-04:00

This past weekend I had a Pampered Chef Show.

I love having these kinds of things, but I hate inviting people. It's not because I don't like having people come over to my house, it's because well...I don't want people to get an invitation and then feel the need to make something up so they can't come.

This is what I have a tendency to do.

Okay I never do that. I will go to the party out of guilt. And I will spend money that we don't have.

I don't ever want to make people feel like I do over a Pampered Chef Show.

I don't know that I have ever not gone to a home party show that I have been invited to. I have definitely NEVER gone and not bought something.

So I think it is better to not invite people so they don't have the uncomfortable position (that's how I feel) of saying no.

Then the vicious cycle begins.

I posted a Status Update on my Facebook saying thanks to my sister for coming and doing a show for me and I get comments from people like "I wasn't invited" and I'm sure these friends are not commenting to make me feel bad, but it makes me feel horrible - like the worst friend ever.

I would never post a comment like that. I am afraid that everyone reads in to stuff like I do.

The fact of the matter is, probably NO ONE reads in to stuff like I do.

I will throw around every possible scenario in my head of how someone could take how I comment on their Facebook Status.

Which is why I don't comment a lot. I usually just "Like" statuses.

I don't want someone to be mad at me over a Status Update or comment.

Let me just clarify. I am not mad at anyone. I feel like people get mad at me.I deleted the post because I don't want any more comments that I can read WAY TOO MUCH in to and then feel bad about for days.

Part of my brain says "If you would have invited them, you could have had a show over $400 and then you could have gotten another $20 in credit AND another half price item. Way to go."

Another part tries to justify not inviting them. "Where would you have put another 10 people? Your house it not big enough for that!".

So back to the title. Why DO I care? The little voices in my head are out of control some times.

Weekend Recap

2011-10-03T08:22:00.001-04:00

This weekend was spent enjoying time with the Peters family.

Maggie came & did a Pampered Chef show for me (which was awesome!) and Steve, Charlie & Eli came along to hang out, go to the drags & just have fun!

The following is a camera dump of the highlights from our weekend.

Charlie enjoying Friday afternoon qualifying.

I think he really liked it. But what boy (big or little) doesn't enjoy loud noise & flames?

Aidan & Charlie with the John Force Racing 9/11 Tribute car

ACE has loved the drags since he was an infant.

Charlie taking a ride on the Harley.

Aidan & Joe Amato.

Aidan & Charlie with the Lucas Oil tow vehicle. Pretty cool!

I want this sign in my yard.

Maggie & Eli (wearing his mothe's famous scowl).

Charlie wearing the cheese popcorn from the Kettlecorn stand.

Funny Car flames.

Eli had his tootie - and...dropped it underneath the grandstands. Austin & Aidan went down and rescued it.

Beautiful small sunset over Maple Grove Raceway.

The Jet Car was impressive!

After a long day at the track, Aidan was exhausted.

This is the Sunday traffic back-up. We live one-mile from Gate 1!

My sweet husband back at the track on Sunday. Thanks Zach for the great picture!

Three Things - 09/29/2011

2011-09-29T08:08:00.000-04:00

Three Things I'm Loving this Week: (Okay maybe four)

1. Cooler weather and enjoyable cups of coffee. I love my morning coffee every day, but it just seem cozier when the weather dips in the fall. I can also justify another 1/2 cup to myself - (it's chilly!).

2. Pastor Keith McGarvey's sermons available to download on Sermon.net. Now I have something worthwhile to listen to in the car. I hope his previous sermon's will be available in the future!

3. NHRA Drag Racing at Maple Grove Raceway. Before I moved here, I had no idea what the phenomenon was. Nineteen years later I am hooked. It is amazing to watch cars hurdle down the track at speeds of over 300 mph. Night qualifying is by far my favorite. Sniff a little nitro? Yes please (even though it makes you cry like a baby).

It is this weekend by the way.

4. Wednesday morning Bible Study. It feels like home. A wonderful group of women who have "been there, done that" or maybe just have a different perspective on what's going on in the world. One of the few places where my heart is at peace.

Three Things I'm Not Loving this Week:
1. Before school wardrobe fights with Aidan. "I wish I could wear what I wanted!" is a phrase I hear frequently these days. Yes sweetheart I understand, but you will look ridiculous if you wear that ensemble to school.

2. Getting paid every other week. Yes I am thankful that Jerry and I both get regular paychecks. But the fact that we both get paid the same week makes the off week a little tricky. I hope that I will get used to this sometime soon.

3. It's that time of year... when rodents start making their pilgrimage indoors. When you live in a farmhouse that is over 200 years old and have a significant phobia of them - it's terrifying.

I'm baaacccckkkk!

2011-09-23T08:03:00.002-04:00

How about a whole bunch of randomness? Sounds good. I could go on & on about what I/we have been up to since I last blogged, but that be be the longest blog post evah.

So my brain is telling me just post some things to clear them out of my conscious thoughts to make room for more important things!

1. Gratitude Journal - I have been keeping a gratitude journal (thanks Oprah) since Thursday, May 26, 2011. I write at least five things everyday that I am grateful for. I also try to find a quote that means something to me or I would like to apply to my life. The blurb Oprah comments on about the journal says that it will change your life in just a few days. It has made me think about appreciating the little things, but life changing? I don't know about that.

2. Rain - It is raining in Bullfrog Hollow yet again. Like torrential downpour. If the water runs in our back door again, I maybe checking in to a mental hospital.

3. Ulcer -Yep - I have another one. Thank goodness the wiser (yeah right) me got to the hospital when it first started hurting rather than waiting until it was a major problem. I am now on Protonix two times a day to try and heal it. I will go for another EGD in October to see if the medicine is working. The doctors are also puzzled as to why I keep getting them. Join the crowd!!

4. Lin Good buyout - My husband's company was sold in July. So far things have been going well. As my wise mother told me "This will be a great opportunity for Jerry". We shall see. We are still on the honeymoon.

5. Bible Study - Wednesday Bible Study has started up again. I have been going for three years. I wasn't sure if I was going back or not, but after attending this past Wednesday, I knew my heart needs this time with God. The ladies that are there make me feel at peace.

6. Class Ring for Austin - What a tug on my heart! My sweet (almost 16 year old son) came home with the paperwork & we subsequently ordered his class ring. How time has flown.

7. 40 Looming - In just a few short months I will be 40. I think about it almost everyday. I didn't think I would feel so weird about it. I said to Jerry while we were on vacation "I'm going to be 40! I haven't accomplished anything meaningful!". That's my goal before I turn 40 in February. Accomplish something meaningful.

8. Coupons - I love the idea of couponing. You must be super dedicated. I don't think I can make that strong of a commitment.

9. Ebersole Boys - Our sons are hilarious - most of the time. At other times, they are downright annoying. I guess it's a good thing that there is balance.

That's it for now. I need to find something I am passionate about - that's not cleaning.

New Year, New Me

2011-01-02T18:41:00.000-05:00

So I wasn't really sure what New Year's resolutions I wanted to make.

I mean sure, you make them each year, but this year I wanted them to be different. I want them to mean something - to me. I want them to help me to become a better person and not to set me up for failure.

So here goes:

This year I will attempt to:

Cook at least one recipe per day from my new cookbook (thanks to my sister and BIL!) I have already cooked the Herb-Rubbed Pork and the George Washington Blueberry Cobbler!

Use up what is in our freezer as part of the recipe challenge.

Have some quality crafting time for myself - at least twice a week.

Read a book! Read a book! Read a mother...Oh you get the idea.

Write more letters, write more blog posts, heck, just write!

So, here it goes, a new year! Welcome 2001, I look forward to making your acquaintance!

Shutterfly's 50 Free Cards Promotion

2010-11-26T13:10:00.000-05:00

So I have never used Shutterfly before, but I have received Christmas photo cards from others that have used Shutterfly and was considering using them this year.
Then I saw a post from one of the blogs that I check regularly and they had shared this advertisement with this great opportunity from Shutterfly.

Fifty, yes fifty free cards promotion! And all I have to do is blog about it.

So this year will be the year I try Shutterfly. I am excited! It seems to me that the have an extensive selection of cards and layouts to choose from - and who doesn't love choices?!

So I am going to head on over and start designing my cards and await the e-mail with my coupon codes. Heck I may even post a little something on Facebook about it.

So if you love freebies (and who doesn't - especially around this time of year?), head on over to Shutterfly and check their amazing products:

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Perfect for friends and family near or far!

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Thanks for looking and have a great day!

I Need to Slay the Paperwork Monster...

2010-11-02T07:57:00.000-04:00

...so he quits puking papers up all over my desk and surrounding area.

The only reason I am posting these pictures is so I can show pictures after I get this all taken care of today. It is literally making me a little crazy.

I'm not to Psycho Kitty crazy yet, but I can feel her coming on.

The thing is, I thought I had this all under control this weekend. Boy was I wrong.

And now I will dive into this mess of disorganization and get it under control.

Or Psycho Kitty WILL make an appearance. We don't want that to happen!

Football & Display My Art 2010

2010-10-20T20:21:00.000-04:00

Aidan's Display My Art Artwork. It's a circus lion!

Aidan was a captain at this past Sunday's game. It was awesome. They won 32-0 & he rushed for 10 yards for a touchdown!

He's number 23. He's running off the field after the coin toss & discussion with the refs.

ACE Football Pic 2010

2010-10-07T07:33:00.000-04:00

Look at him! Love him in this picture. Not really happy with the bad attempt at Photoshop. But he is adorable!

You would never guess that behind that sweet smile is a Tasmanian Devil.

He plays with his heart because he loves the game of football. It doesn't matter if he's practicing or playing in a game, gives 110% always.

That is what makes him a great footall player.

Geocaching Addiction

2010-10-05T07:16:00.000-04:00

As if you didn't already know, my name is Tracy and I am addicted to geocaching.

There I said it.

We only started caching the beginning of August and have found more than 60 treasures!

Uncle Matt & I rooting through the loot in the Hogback Hollow cache in Potter County.

Uncle Rick & Uncle Matt looking at the Potter County Trail map.

The Dragons of Cymru cache near the Cumru Township building

Aidan & I at Middle Creek on the Mill Stone Trail

We really didn't have time to look for any this past weekend which really bummed me out. We went for a micro on Monday night, found it easily and that made the world all better.

I don't know how many we will get done this weekend either with the NHRA coming to Maple Grove, but we shall see.

We have purchased our first ammo can & we are going to attempt to hide our own geocache.

People are clever when it comes to unique containers to use as cache vessels.

I love it when just Jerry & I go out. We get to go for a walk, talk & just be together. Our geocaching adventure will hopefully continue for years to come.

A Sunday of Fun!

2010-10-04T07:11:00.006-04:00

Happy Monday everybody! Another weekend has flown by and here we are at Monday again. I'm telling you - slow this crazy ride down!!

Saturday was pretty calm. Jerry was on service & the boys are still on house restriction, so they were here, but getting along, so it was enjoyable.

Sunday however, everything was a little hectic! We left the house right before noon to go to Owen J. Roberts High School for ACE's football game. They got crushed and our ten year-old is starting to not like playing.

I know winning isn't always the point, it's the fun of playing, blah, blah, blah. He's a boy. He's ten. He wants to win. Period. It's the same story each week. He's even "threatened us" with "I think I'll just play soccer next year". No.You.Will.Not. Period.

Everything was smoothed over with a stop at Sonic on the way home.

The game was over in record time and it was a good thing because I had the baby shower for our niece and nephew-in-law in the afternoon.

They party was wonderful and they got bunches of wonderful gifts for their new little addition.

I have to tell you, I don't know how our sons made it to the ages that they are. I can not believe all the stuff they have for a baby. I mean I'm sure everyone feels that way when they go to shop for things for the "next generation" but seriously people, pacifier wipes??? What happened to either running it under water or the popular "phoof" it off? I am pretty sure those are still accredited methods, but if you need to waste your money, err I mean buy special wipes for anything from their buns to their boogies. I guess that's your choice. Maybe I'm just ticked that I didn't think of it first!

It was a great weekend & I hope everyone had a fantastic one also. Here's to a fun week!

A Little Bit of Halloween Decor

2010-10-02T14:39:00.011-04:00

So we put up most of our Halloween decorations. You know how I like minimalistic, so this little bit of orange and black goodness is enough for me.

Sometimes when I see pictures of other women's Halloween decorating, I feel like I haven't done a thing! But it also makes me a little crazy to think about putting all of their stuff away!

We have a few more things to put on the front porch and I need to get pumpkins and mums, but I don't think it is in the plans for this weekend.

Jerry and the boys just left for lacrosse throw-around and the house is eerily quiet.

I may light up some autumn candles and bust out my Bible Study book. It isn't too often I get these quiet moments to myself!

Hoping everyone is enjoying this beautiful fall day and doing what they like to do. I know I am - spending time at home with my family - God is good!

Now enjoy my decorating pictures with commentary:

Some of decorations in the living room. The lanterns hanging in the windows I got at the dollar store last year. They are so cute when they are lit up.

Here's a close up of one of the lanterns.

This is the cabinet under the television.

Love my Party Lite Lantern with interchangeable panels.

The bear is from Boyd's.

I got these lovelies at Green Dragon. The above leaves/acorns are made of wood. I am anxious to go back next week & get some more. I've got ideas swimming around in my head.

Pumpkin from the same stand. It is made from tin.

Skeleton made of wood. I love skeletons!

A shot of all of them with a half dollar for size reference.

My brain is swimming with ideas as to what to do with the ones I got and the ones that I may still get. For right now, they greet you when you come in the front door.

As I get some creative ideas, I will post them. As for now, any suggestions?

New Bible Study

2010-10-01T07:08:00.002-04:00

Two weeks ago, our Bible Study group got together for the first time this school year.

We met for a week, had off a week (kids were off from school) and this past Wednesday was our first actual "study" day.

The new study is called "Bad Girls of the Bible - And What We Can Learn From Them" by Liz Curtis Higgs.

I decided to read the first chapter. I can tell if I'm going to like a book by reading the first chapter. If it takes a lot of effort to convince myself to continue reading, then it usually is a book I will not finish.

This book is not one of those. I hated to put it down.

It is a Bible study that I understand. The author translates the stories of the "bad girls" into modern day topics that I can relate to.

We watched the hour long DVD to start off on Wednesday. It is the author giving highlights of each chapter and main bad girl.

She is comical and very likable.

Our first chapter is about Eve, the original bad girl. I have the chapter read & will start the workbook this weekend. It seems like a wonderful companion to the book. I will let you know after I start it.

Bible Study is a wonderful grounding point for me. The women there are so supportive and wonderful. I find myself praying for guidance and assistance more often. I pray for wisdom in parenting, in relationships, aww heck who am I kidding, just overall help. I can sure use it.

Am I really cut out for this parenting thing?

2010-09-30T07:31:00.005-04:00

I am constantly asking myself this question. When tough situations arise, I think "I do not know what I am doing. Who entrusted me with real live human beings?".

As Austin gets older, the problems get more complex and come with more serious consequences.

He does not get the significance of doing well in school. He is a 14 (almost 15) year old young man who lives in the moment and does not think about what actions he takes today could affect his road to the future. I hear myself saying "If I would've known then what I know now...".

I make it sound like he is doing terrible. He's not. He is only having problems with his Earth & Space Science class. I am not sure if he really doesn't understand the material, or he doesn't like the teacher. Regardless, he is going to have to adapt.

I can not express to him how much this concerns me without sounding like a nag. Our conversations usually start out civilized and then end up with either or I or both of us crying.

It is so hard for me to watch him struggle. The things I do for him, I wish my Mom had done for me. She knew the importance of letting me learn from my own mistakes, but I don't want him to make the same mistakes I did.

I have been praying about him a lot. I want him to develop a desire to want to do the best, to be the best. I want him to be comfortable in his own shoes.

What happened to my little boy? He's still here, just in a size 10.

2009-2010 - 8th Grade - Still a boy.

What a difference a year makes.

Wow. When did this happen? I guess when I wasn't looking.

Autumn Pretties

2010-09-29T20:00:00.004-04:00

I love autumn. The changing of the seasons from summer to fall is my favorite time of year. The colors, the scents, the baking, the changing of temperature...love, love, LOVE IT!

I also love to decorate for fall. Fall leaves, gourds, pumpkins, corn shocks, hay bales...I am in heaven.

I found these beautiful dishes at Wal-Mart last week & just had to have them.

This is the platter. I put a half dollar in the middle of it so you could see how big it is.

Bowl from the top.

Bowl from the side.

And at last the combination.

I can't wait to serve something yummy out of this gorgeous serving set. It looks so pretty just sitting on our table. I may have to whip up some Italian Sandwich Dip this weekend to give it a test run.

Back to School, Back to Work

2010-09-02T14:59:00.003-04:00

It's that time of year again. Back to school. I dread it every year. I think I feared it even more so this year because it meant that Austin was going to high school. Weep. Cry. Weep. Cry some more. The last stop in his Governor Mifflin career has come into view and I am desperately trying to find the emergency brake.

How can it possibly be that my first born is old enough to go to high school? I was unaware of the drastic change that was about to occur in my boy. Girls, riding to school with friends, he somehow got taller than me...

I really didn't think it would be this hard. Austin has become very independent & I am so proud of that. He has been staying home by himself for a few years like when we go out shopping or to one of Aidan's practices, gone fishing several times out on the Atlantic with our neighbors (their son is his best friend) and is generally a very nice young man - except when it comes to his brother, but who is ever nice to their siblings?

I know it is the ultimate goal to have him move out, be a contributing member of society and to take care of himself, but I didn't think it would come along this fast.

He is a young man. A bit of a goof, but a great kid, who I am so thankful to have for a son.

Not to mention that my youngest son started his last year at the elementary school where I work. He is so sweet.

Maybe I can hang on to him a bit longer.

We shall see.

What! - It's been two months!

2010-08-11T09:29:00.009-04:00

So I've been busy! The boys & I were in Erie for two weeks to celebrate my Mom's 60th birthday & my sister's wedding.

While we were gone, new carpeting was installed in the bedrooms. That means before we left for Harbor Creek everything had to be emptied out of the bedrooms. The boys helped (and by that I mean, not so much) and Jerry worked his butt off to get it done. It is beautiful, but I am sure that there are still a ton of boxes in the attic that need unpacked. Oh well, out of sight, out of mind (also, not so much).

We were in Brecknock for 13 days and then traveled to the wilds of Pennsylvania for our annual 10 day camping trip to Potter County.

ACE started football mini-camp last night (it's so freakin' hot here!) & I've been sitting in the air conditioning because apparently, I am a wimp. I do not like to sweat.

Here are highlight pictures from the past month & a half. We had so much fun & I am sure the pictures do not do it justice.

Charles James & Aunt Fracy

The Myers'. Gosh are we cute - or what! My sisters & Momma are beautiful!

Walking down the aisle. The strap broke on my shoe. I tried my best to conceal my mortification.

Lynne & I. We are adorable.

Eli Earl bustin' a move. See his arms?

My baby sis. Gorgeous.

The love of my life. It doesn't get any better than him.

Daddy & Mom. Still crazy in love. What a wonderful example to the three of us.

The plate I made at Claytopia. I thought painting pottery would be relaxing & therapeutic. All it did was stress me out! It's not perfect & I hate that!

Mmmmm...Mike Sullivan...HAWT!!

Uncle Matt & I digging through the cache stash at Hogback Hollow. I must say, spending the afternoon hiking through the woods with Uncle, Rick, Uncle Matt & Jerry was probably my best day there. Relaxing, energizing, amazing.

So there it is in a brief little nutshell. I doubt life will calm down any time soon, but I do enjoy the blogging & will try to do so more frequently.

Feeling Suckie

2010-06-14T19:20:00.005-04:00

A friend of mine put her feelings in those words one day last week. Today, I am copying them. I have been having a few "poor me" moments the last week.

And I am glad I got myself out of it. Actually "we" got me out of it. Mostly.

I sometimes feel, I don't know how to put it into words. At least words that are diplomatic and won't hurt feelings.

But at least I posted about it and I will know what I mean when I read this even if no one else does.

And that's okay. No feelings are hurt, I kind of put it out there (at least for myself) and I feel better.

Now on to some pictures.

One of our resident bullfrogs hanging out on the bucket.

My new planter. Red, white and blue - an ode to my mother.

Gerber daisies - Love, love, LOVE them.

A close up of the aforementioned bullfrog. Jerry was trying

to see how close he could get before he would jump away.

ACE just being ACE. A-dor-ABLE!!

Free-for-All Friday

2010-06-11T07:09:00.005-04:00

I know it's been a while since I posted. Life at the Ebersole's has been chaotic the past month.

We have had lacrosse games, Field Day, a college graduation, a graduation party, Memorial Day, lacrosse picnics, remodeling, the last few days of school...WHEW...I am exhausted! LOL!!

So I have a bunch of pictures and a few random thoughts, okay maybe a lot of random thoughts, but I am random, so it fits!

Aidan relaxing in the living room watching TV. He looks so comfy. His poison has cleared up rather nicely thanks to Fels Naptha soap & swimming!

Austin "1/4 Situation" Ebersole showing off his abs. Austin is as tall as I am now. He points that out to me daily. He has finals today and Monday. I can't believe he is going to high school next year.

Both of them engrossed in the television. It is one of the few times when they are not fighting.

Our bedroom modeling. We are going to put our bed on this wall once the carpet is installed.

Looking toward the back yard in our room.

The freaky weather yesterday morning. The sun was out right at our house, but across the road, looking at the mountain - CREEPY!!

Another shot of the foggy, grey overcastness (not a real word, I know) on the mountain.

Aidan getting his lacrosse trophy. Aidan was named Best All-Around Lacrosse Player on his team. He scores goals, plays defense & goalie. Gosh how I love this kid!

Pictures of Aidan's team getting their trophies.

More of Aidan's team. I must also say a huge thank you to Aidan's coach, Linda Bram. She is awesome! I couldn't ask for a better person to coach Aidan.

Water lily on our pond. Even through our unusually snowy weather. Our beautiful plant survived.

Well that's it for the randomness. Hopefully blogging will become more frequent this summer. Then again...maybe not!

Double Digit Birthday Party

2010-05-10T07:39:00.009-04:00

My baby is 10 today. Hard to believe. All those times where I thought I was going to go crazy with the not sleeping and then screaming his little head off, having to cover his head with a blanket so he couldn't be nosy and look around avoiding sleep. All of those times when I almost threw in the motherhood towel - has been worth every minute.

He is strong-willed, stubborn, smart, witty, athletic, competitive..the list goes on and on.

We enjoy life with our sons, through the trials and tribulations we, as a family, get through.

Aidan is a one of a kind boy who always lives life to the fullest - and I wouldn't have him any other way.

So Happy Birthday ACE! Thank you for the joy you have brought to our lives and we look forward to all the things to come.

Pictures from the party we had for Aidan on Saturday, May 8, 2010.

The popsicles from the Lutz's

The Jet Set remote control airplane from the Payne's

His new bike from his father, brother & I.

Ready to blow out the candles

TGIF..and it really is!

2010-04-23T07:32:00.002-04:00

I am going to start posting each Friday the wonderful things I have been blessed with each week.

Goodness is... getting to see my Dad on Tuesday night

Goodness is... being determined to have good days - even when the prognosis isn't good

Goodness is... the weather warming up - again

Goodness is... going on a drive after supper with the boys and my husband

Goodness is... writing letters to my guys

Goodness is... an unexpected card in the mail

Goodness is... my littlest nephew's first birthday!

Goodness is... Earth Day!

Goodness is... seeing God at work

Goodness is... all the frogs in our pond

Goodness is... seeing our first baby ducks

~Have a wonderful weekend! I know I will. I am determined to!

My New Endeavor

2010-04-21T08:05:00.004-04:00

I have taken on a new project.

I must first say I have never been a "diary" or "journal" writer. I have every good intention of writing in one faithfully each day only to falter, forget to write and then give up entirely.

I am hoping that this new idea I have (after following a couple blogs) will provide a source of comfort for me and I will enjoy writing each day.

Today is Day One. I have three separate books to write in. I am not writing in each one every day, rather I will alternate which one I write in.

There may be days where I need to write in all of them, but I will not require that of myself. Too much pressure. What's that old saying? :Promise less, deliver more. Yadda, yadda, yadda.

So here they are. Letters to the ones I love, Bible verses, inspiring quotes. Little pieces of me, especially for them.

Some Things About Me

2010-04-16T22:19:00.005-04:00

10 random things about me...

1. I have self-diagnosed O.C.D.. If you know me, you know it's true.
2. My closet is arranged in Roy G. Biv order.
3. I am trying to break my addiction to iced tea. H2O is my current go to beverage.
4. I want everyone to like me, even if that means compromising who I "really" am.
5. I think Mike Sullivan (a lumberjack) is dirty in the sack HAWT.
6. If I get awake at night and remember something I forgot to do earlier, I will get up & do it.
7. I am a picky eater and could eat salad all the time.
8. I get annoyed when people don't update their blogs and I really shouldn't care.
9. I love the HBO series Weeds (thanks to my sister Tricia).
10. I don't know what I did before DVR.

And 5 things I don't like...
1. I want everyone to like me.
2. I always think everything is my fault.
3. I get angry over the silliest things.
4. I make snap decisions and then regret them.
5. I doubt myself all. the. time.

Aidan's Latest Art Projet

2010-04-13T07:08:00.004-04:00

I'm going to start off this post by being selfish and saying "No! You may not have it!". Having said that, here is what "it" is.

Aidan brought home his pottery art project yesterday.

It is adorable. I mean - LOOK HOW CUTE HIS LION IS! Meep.

I think the rafia/curly jute (or whatever you call it) is fabulous.

I will have to thank his art teacher today because this is just one of those things that a mother will keep for years.

Spring=Goodness - and a few other things

2010-03-30T07:18:00.003-04:00

Yesterday when I was walking out the door, I noticed a frog sitting on the edge of our fish pond.

It brought a smile to my face and also a little bit of dread...Spring is on its way. Am I really ready for this?

I think the reason I enjoy winter is because there is only so much you can do inside. I enjoy cleaning, but once the dusting and sweeping and de-cluttering has been done, all that is really left to do is cozy up on the couch and watch movies or maybe a family game night.

But when spring rolls around, it means that the cleaning not only needs to be done inside, but outside as well.

This year we need to plant grass seed, redo the flower beds, clean out the fish pond and I'm sure there are more things I just won't let myself think of right now.

And then there's the routine yard maintenance, mowing the grass, weeding the flower beds, the fish pond chemicals - ugh.

This year I will definitely enlist the help of our slave labor, I mean, sons. They can help with all of the chores this spring.

Aidan will probably love helping clean out the fish pond, and since our fish population took a hit this winter, he will probably be rewarded with a fish from the new pond store that opened up across the street from Jerry's shop.

And we have Austin in the palm of our hands. He loves having a cell phone, but Daddy and Mommy won't pay for it if he doesn't help around the house, so he doesn't need another reward. Just keep paying for that cell phone - he's all ours.

I need to look at the grand picture. A beautifully landscaped yard that we can sit out in and enjoy. A place for the boys to play lacrosse and run around in. The relaxing sound of water running in our fish pond.

Forget about all the work it's going to take to get there. It will be all worth it in the end.

Spring Thaw 03/28/2010

2010-03-28T16:47:00.003-04:00

Today Austin played in the Spring Thaw Invitational Lacrosse Tournament at Owen J. Roberts High School. He is number 13 (with the yellow and black shoes).

In the above picture, he is standing on the zero of the 30 yard line.

Left side between the two players in blue.

Left side low (you can see the "3" on his jersey).

Middle of the picture running.

He played on the JV and Varsity teams.

They all did really well for it being their first games of the season. They didn't even play a scrimmage this year because of our lovely weather.

Both the JV and Varsity teams played three games today against some really tough competition.

And even though they didn't walk away victorious...

they did get a really cool t-shirt!

A Weekend to Remember!

2010-03-22T07:36:00.010-04:00

This past weekend, my sister Maggie, her husband Steve, Charlie and Eli came to Brecknock Township.

Maggie and Steve had a wedding to go to and the Ebersole's were keeping the boys, I know, twist my arm - unsupervised spoiling? Who could pass that opportunity up?

I was so glad that the boys aren't strange with us. We don't get to see them that often and I've always been afraid that they would be scared and not let us hold them or want anything to do with us for that fact. Thank goodness that's not the case.

Charlie has been looking forward to seeing Aidan ever since Christmas. Aidan takes the time to play with him and Aidan likes that someone wants to play with him.

On Friday evening, before lacrosse practice, we went to Boehringer's with the whole Peters clan. Then on Saturday while Maggie and Steve were at the wedding, we took the boys to Oregon Pike Dairy for supper. That by far was the highlight of our weekend. We just couldn't believe how good they were.

There is a model train that runs around the ceiling in the restaurant. Every time it would come in to Charlie's view, he would exclaim "Here come the choo-choo train!", and it never got old and do you know how many times it came into his view in ninety minutes?

They both ate so good and were so well behaved, it was a delight.

After we were done eating, We walked down to the pen where they have some whitetail deer to look at and on our way encountered another little pen that had a mama and three baby goats in it. Charlie was peering in between the fence rails, fascinated by the little goats - so sweet.

He is looking at the deer in the fence.

Eli liked riding on the horse tire swing!

Austin, Charlie and Aidan at the top of the barn ready to go down the spiral silo slide.

Eli giving Austin a look like "Thanks Aust for not letting me go down this crazy thing by myself!".

Look at this playground. It's not huge, but it is AMAZING! They are just enough things to do that it keeps it interesting, but you can keep an eye on you children no matter where they are. It was not full when we were there (early evening) but I'm sure it gets full especially when they open up the outside ice cream deck.

This picture looks like we left them on this little cow by themselves, but actually Austin is crouched down behind them holding on to Eli.

They have a hollowed out log on its side for the kids to crawl through. I put Eli in it and then enlisted Austin's help to get him to look out through one of the little opening on the side. CUTE!

I was hard to take this picture because be had to look into the sun and the little boys were not thrilled with this. To be honest, neither was I!

Saturday night to Sunday morning was uneventful. They both were asleep by 8:30. Eli was up at 5:00, had a bottle, visited for a bit, watched some TV and then went back to sleep until 8:30. Charlie woke up at 5:00 when Eli did and when I went to Aidan's room to get Eli, Charlie sat up in bed, looked at me, ripped his tootie from his mouth and exclaimed "I'm done!" (as in sleeping). I said "Oh no you're not. Lay back down and go back to sleep" which he did with no argument. He got up a little before Eli.

I mean come on, isn't he the SMILIEST BABY EVER!

They both had breakfast and played and were just awesome! When it came time to get Charlie dressed, he just wanted to be in his boxer briefs.

On Sunday afternoon, it was hard to let them go home, but we had so much fun with them and are looking forward to seeing them soon.

Gosh how we love those little red-heads!

Aidan's 3rd Grade "Create A Community" Project

2010-03-16T19:49:00.006-04:00

Aidan has a project due tomorrow. Actually the Ebersole family has a project due. And by that I also mean Ryan and Amy Payne and Scott Swavely. Those are all the people it took to get this project done. When they say "It Takes A Village" I am positive that they are referring to third grade social studies projects.

I called in reinforcement on Monday night. Amy has such a patient way with Aidan. Thank goodness!

We bought all the materials for the model at A.C. Moore. They have these wonderful kits from SceneARama that make model making a bit easier.

He also had to complete a map and a report about the island. I'm telling you - these third grade projects are killing me.

Because you know who has to type the report ("Please Mom - will you type my report for me? You do such a good job.")

Here is the completed model.

After the weekend we had and the last minute scramble to get the project finished, all I can say is "Whew". I'm glad this project is done!

A Springtime List of To-Do's

2010-03-10T07:45:00.006-05:00

I wasn't really sure about what I wanted to blog about today.

So I thought I would post some random pictures and make a list of the things I want to accomplish this spring.

The first picture is of the new St. Patrick's day flag I got at A.C. Moore. It was 50% off and cost me a whopping $5.49. Not a bad deal. Since I got the flag holder for in my front flower bed and it has been bare for the past few months, I needed a pick me up.

Speaking of front flower bed, the first item on my list is cleaning out the flower bed, dividing the perennials and getting the fish pond cleaned out. Our fish took a hit this winter with our major snowfall and we had quite a few casualties. The pond needs to be emptied and all the gunk cleaned out of the bottom. Then I can get the waterfall back in working order.

Along those same lines, I would like to get all the flower beds "decluttered". Since our home is so beautiful on the inside, I want the outside to be just as wonderful.

And while we are at it, why not a whole yard make-over? The "burn area", chicken coop and back yard need sprucing up too.

I put away all of my snowmen yesterday. It was very sad. I love snowmen and I hate to put all their bright and cheery faces away in the tubs to be stored in the attic until after Thanksgiving. On the bright side, Jerry brought down the Easter tubs. Inside was a kaleidoscope of Easter eggs, baskets and bunnies.

I put all the plastic eggs in my new basket and it is sitting in the living room. I know, when my sweet little nephews are here in a week, they won't stay in the basket very long. That's okay, I will pick them up. I know how Charlie can't refuse a ball and some of the eggs look like footballs, baseballs, basketballs and golf balls. It would be so wrong of me to tell him he can't play with them. So I won't.

This last picture is of my sweet husband. I think he was about 5 years old when this was taken (circa 1978). He is the one on the left. My mother-in-law gave me this picture a couple years ago and I am looking for a frame so I can hang it in the study.

So that's about it. I think tomorrow I will write about my openly defiant child. I think my head spins around on my shoulders when I deal with him. And he knows it. Ugh. I hate dealing with myself.

Brecknock Celebrity Bingo 03/05/2010

2010-03-07T08:52:00.005-05:00

This past Friday night was family night at Brecknock Elementary. The P.T.O. held a Celebrity Bingo Night in the cafeteria.

Jerry was approached by the president of the P.T.O. to be a celebrity. He is a lieutenant at the Brecknock Fire Company and whenever help is needed, he is there.

As a celebrity, your duty was to call a game of bingo.

He is definitely a celebrity in my book.

Always the fireman, he is attempting to listen to his pager while he is being introduced.

Jerry calling a game of bingo.

He was upstaged by Screwball, the Reading Phillies mascot. You should have heard the crowd erupt when Screwball walked in.

Other celebrities included the voice of the U-Scan at Redner's ("Please scan your Pump Perks card now"), former gym teacher Mrs. Higgins, principal Dr. Kueny, former teachers Mrs. Orzechowski and Mr. Engle, Dairy Queen owner Mr. Hamid, substitute teacher Mrs. Vandevort and many more that I can't remember.

This was a fantastic event. There were probably about 150 people there. Everyone had a wonderful time.

This is what ACE chose as his prize when our table won a game of bingo. A jiggly, glittery shamrock headband. Just what every nine year-old boy needs.

ACE's Energy Project

2010-03-03T07:49:00.003-05:00

Last week, Aidan had a project due for Science. It was a poster - an energy poster.

It had very specific requirements and to be honest, it made me a little crazy.

For those of you that know me, I am a little obsessive, compulsive. Okay maybe a lot.

The poster had to be neat. That is a word that is not in Aidan's vocabulary. It meant he had to take his time and be careful. He just wants to get it done and be on to the next item on the list.

So I am not the best parent to help him with this project. I can help him with the pictures. Selecting them, printing them out, but as for the actual placement of them on the poster, I defer to Jerry.

He has a much more laid back approach and that works better with Aidan. Not my high strung "YOU HAVE TO BE CAREFUL!!!! NEATNESS COUNTS FOR 5 POINTS!!!"

So, Jerry helped his youngest son complete the project. And we, er he, got an A+.

Gosh I'm glad we're doing so well in 3rd grade science.

And here's a picture thrown in just for fun. We picked up the boys lacrosse uniforms last night. Austin wasn't thrilled with the idea of putting it on for picture, but ACE is always game.

He was so thrilled to get #61. That was Christopher's number and he idolizes him so.

It's Been A Long Weekend!

2010-03-01T07:31:00.004-05:00

That sounds terrible, but it wasn't. The Ebersole family had a long and tiring weekend but it was great!

This past Saturday was the Mustang Open Wrestling Tournament at Governor Mifflin High School.

Over 300 wrestlers from southeastern Pennsylvania, Delaware, New Jersey and who knows where else came to Shillington to compete in the open tournament for students in Junior High and younger.

It was a great day. I am merely a worker at the tournament and I had several people come up to me to tell me how wonderful the tournament was. "Great food!" I heard and "Fantastic tournament. Definitely worth the two hour drive!" I was told. I passed these comments on to the director. What great people we have coming to our tournament!

The ending to our day was not until 8:00 pm (from 7:30 in the morning) but we have such wonderful people in the wrestling club, they made the day go fast.

Another great thing was ACE took third place. He was happy with that I think.

Here he is with his new piece of hardware. I love the bronze medal. It's such a pretty color.

This is the bruise above his right eye. He got this sometime during his first match. He has no idea how he got it and neither do I. I did not watch him wrestle on Saturday. After the last tournament at Cocalico and hearing him yell out in pain, I can't do it. It is a mother's instinct to protect her child and there wasn't a thing I could do to protect him. That is tough.

I know I am going to have to get over that as he is going to continue his school sporting career for the next nine years (oh my gosh that seems like a long time right now).

It would be different if he played sports that weren't so physical, but alas, this is Aidan and if he can't hurt somebody, he isn't going to play it.

So, ACE is done with his 2009-2010 wrestling season. It was a tough year for him, but one full of accomplishments. We are so proud.

Now, where is all that lacrosse equipment?

A Day of Goodness (and GOODIES!)

2010-02-20T12:33:00.005-05:00

Look what I got for my birthday!

An iTunes gift card (a definite winner in my book!). I never thought I would download as many songs as I do - but, I DO!!! I love being able to just buy the songs I like rather than a whole album that I may only like one or two songs on.

A little gift box. And oh - what does it say on it? PANDORA! (In the background are the flowers that the wonderful girls I work with got for me)

In the little gift box was not one, but two - count 'em - two charms for my bracelet. One is a football and the other is an adorable little turtle that I ogled last weekend.

Here are the charms on my bracelet. I have to say I now have a serious addiction to Pandora charms. They are so sweet.

And here is the most precious gift. Today in the mail I received a package from my Aunt Deb. Inside the package were the Cat's Meow I had gotten for my grandparents over the years. I knew that they were coming because my Dad asked me last week if I had gotten a package from Deb.

Also inside was a letter from her explaining about the Cat's Meow and small bag that was also inside.

Aunt Deb wrote that she and Aunt Lin had taken Gran's grandmother's ring and had necklaces made for the grandchildren. It is a heart necklace with my birthstone from the ring along with Gran's birthstone.

I cried. It is such a thoughtful token. I am so happy to wear it. It is beautiful. Just like Gran.

thirty-eight today

2010-02-19T19:21:00.003-05:00

And that doesn't seem so bad when you consider it could stated as....

...1982 weeks
...13,880 days
...333,120 hours
...19,987,200 minutes
...1,199,232,000 seconds

And in this short period of time on God's green earth I have experienced what it is like to...

...be lucky enough to have known my great-great grandmother and great-grandmother
...have the two best parents in the world
...be the oldest of three girls
...have a close relationship with my grandparents, uncles, aunts and cousins
...be married to my best friend for over 17 years and love him more each day
...be a mother to a teenager who gives me joy and grief daily
...be a mother to a new millenium baby who lives life to the fullest at age 9
...have a family who truly loves and supports me no matter what
...almost lose it all and then hold it even closer

So I just want to say thank you to everyone who has helped to create who I am today. It has been wonderful so far!
...

Just a couple pics

2010-02-19T07:30:00.008-05:00

I took this picture the other night of ACE. He had curled up next to his father on the sofa and fell asleep.

I couldn't help it. He is so angelic - when he's sleeping.

On our way to Harrisburg for the Sportman's Show, between our house and Bowmansville we got behind this front end loader that was probably going to help dig someone out of the snow.

The following are pictures Jerry took when the four of us were at the Sportsman's Show in Harrisburg on February 12.

These are some of the taxidermy exhibits that were in Harrisburg. I find them fascinating. Not that I would want one in my house mind you, but they are beautiful.

And lastly, here is Aidan about to be devoured by a ferocious lion. And look, he's not even afraid. What a surprise.

ACE Display My Art

2010-02-18T20:24:00.007-05:00

Aidan is once again doing the Display My Art fundraiser for school. Today he brought home his magnet to show us what he drew for his project.

It's a bison and/or buffalo and it took my breath away.

He is a really good little artist. I always love the artwork he does for this fundraiser.

I took three pictures of the order form with the prices. Hope you can see them because I really don't feel like typing them all out.

I am so proud of this and will have a tough time picking what treasures I want.

My Valentine & Birthday present

2010-02-16T07:23:00.002-05:00

As you may well know, this past weekend was Valentine's Day. I had hinted around about wanting a Pandora bracelet, but I did some Internet research and decided that I didn't want one that bad.

Imagine my surprise when my husband presented me with this bag from Gehman Jewelers.

I was in fact kind of mad. I started to cry, telling him "I don't deserve this" and I may have threatened to give him a tap someplace he didn't want tapped. I had told him that I didn't want him to spend the money on something impractical like this and I didn't "need" it.
Inside the bag was a small box wrapped in this beautiful wrapping paper and awesome bow. (He would like to take credit for the wrap job I'm sure!).

I opened the box...

And inside was this beautiful Pandora bracelet.

With three charms that Jerry picked out himself.

A silver heart with a pink stone. A silver charm with purple stones. And a silver tribal art charm.

I absolutely love it. It is the perfect gift for me. And for Jerry too.

Whenever he is at a loss for something to get me - a Pandora charm will do very nicely!

It's 87 degrees??

2010-02-07T14:07:00.004-05:00

Jerry comes in telling me he needed me to take his picture. He was going to put shorts on.

Remember we have over 20 inches of snow on the ground.

He thought he was so funny sitting on the front porch without a coat and the thermometer reads 87.3 degrees.

Austin was shoveling the sidewalk while this was going on. Poor kid.

Why it's SNOW!!

2010-02-07T09:39:00.001-05:00

It snowed here in Brecknock. And I mean SNOWED!

It is kind of scary when they stop referring to the amount of snowfall in inches and they start referring to it as "crippling".

My poor little car & Jerry's van buried.

We probably got about 20 inches of snow from Friday night to Saturday afternoon with more predicted for the middle of the week.

I did my "thing" when it snows - cooked, baked, cleaned. The boys were out shoveling/playing and then inside playing Playstation or PSP.

Austin shoveling the front sidewalk. He did a great job!

Austin and Aidan playing in the side yard.

The dogs didn't know what to think. There are no pictures of Ruger because he doesn't waste any time doing his business. Cabela, however, trots to the beat of her own drummer, leisurely going around sniffing everything and not caring that it is freezing out.

See our little brown tank barreling through the snow?

I must admit that I think the snow is beautiful. Like many other things in my life, I love the thought of "it" (the "it" being snow at the moment) but I don't like the reality of "it". I think I don't like it here because everything stops when it snows. You don't go anywhere, you can't do anything. I mean it. Everything closes or never opens and no one goes anywhere.

They have the fire company run all EMS calls because of the extended ETA of the ambulance. So, Jerry was out a few times with that.

Thank goodness for our wonderful neighbor who faithfully comes down and plows us out. I can't imagine all the backbreaking labor Jerry and the boys would have to do if John didn't come and plow us out! I do not shovel. I have a tough enough time keeping warm INSIDE!

Today the sun is out and a new day is here. Maybe I will get some pictures of the boys out in the snow if they choose to brave it. Other than that, I will be inside doing my thing - cooking, baking and cleaning - OH MY!

A Few Thoughts on Today 02/04/2010

2010-02-05T07:36:00.002-05:00

A Few Thoughts on Today
FOR TODAY... from Tracy's Daybook

Outside my window... A somewhat grey day. Snow is definitely on its way.

I am thinking... What a great weekend it's going to be - snowed in with my boys!

I am thankful for... Everything. God is good to me.

I am wearing... My pajamas & bathrobe

I am remembering... that I need to send a couple birthday cards.

I am going... to get showered and ready for work.

I am currently reading... Picture Perfect by Jodi Picoult

I am hoping... that we can still gt to Angelo's tomorrow to get ACE's LAX equipment.

On my mind... maybe we'll get an earl dismissal today???

Noticing that... the house is pretty well cleaned up - wow!

Pondering these words... once you say it, you can't take it back.

From the kitchen... for once - not a thing.

Around the house... everything is pretty swell in Bullfrog Hollow.

One of my favorite things... this morning cup of coffee.

From my picture journal....

My eldest son reading at the kitchen table last night & not wanting Mom to take his picture!

Jerry's Valentine/Birthday present

2010-02-01T08:18:00.004-05:00

For those of you who know what the past year has been like for our family, you know Jerry has been through a lot.

Between taking care of me through three surgeries & being the only parent who could actually do stuff for our sons to dealing with the illness and death of his mother he has been a rock.

Jerry rarely buys anything for himself. He often goes without to make sure that the boys are not.

So we have been trying to save money for a new television. We haven't bought a new t.v. in a long time and he has had his eye on a flat screen for a couple years.

Well his dream finally came true yesterday. Not that we were planning on buying a new tv, we were "just looking". But he would have been crazy to pass up this deal at Wal-Mart. So even though it makes me sick to spend money like this, he got a new Sony television for in the living room.

He deserves it. Now I just need to find a cabinet to go underneath it to hold all of the game system/receivers and such.

Would love a new look for our blog!

2010-01-31T10:25:00.002-05:00

I am entering a contest to win a new look for our family blog. Hope we win!!

Gino Capone Wrestling Tournament 01/30/2010

2010-01-31T07:12:00.000-05:00

ACE had a wrestling tournament this past Saturday. The Gino Capone Tournament in Mahanoy City which is in Schuylkill County, about an hour and a half from home. Doesn't that just sound bad-ass???

We departed the house at 6:45 and rode in relative silence (Aidan slept most of the way). Made a stop in Pottsville (no, not to stop at Yuengling) at Dunkin Donuts to get Aidan some fuel and arrived at Mahanoy City High School at 8:30 am.

I don't know who designs these schools, but I'm relatively sure that they don't think about the proximity of the parking lot to the gymnasium. Isn't it a safe bet that most of your parking will be used at events where the gym is being used? And that said, wouldn't you make sure that the people going to these events wouldn't have to freeze half to death walking the block it is from the parking lot to the entrance? Okay, enough about that.

Aidan had a great day. He wrestled the best he has so far this year. Jerry & I were so proud of him. It was a round robin tournament which means we were there for six hours, but he got in some fantastic wrestling against different wrestlers.

He came in fourth, but he was not upset when he lost. He took it in stride and I hope this means he is maturing and the melt downs after he loses will get fewer and farther in between.

Here are a few of him wrestling and a few of me with the bizarre statues at the entrance to the gym. They are the Mahanoy City Golden Bears...so why is there a statue of Abraham Lincoln and...Santa Claus??? I wish there would have been a plaque stating who the Santa Claus looking man was. Kind of creepy.

ACE's medal to add to his collection.

Here is the shirt he got. It's white, not my first or last choice, but he hasn't gotten a shirt at a tournament yet, so we caved and got him this one with his signature ACE on the back.

We are happy he doesn't have a tournament this coming weekend and are hoping that a Saturday night dinner with a certain family is possible. Jerry & I need us some Felly time!

A Few Thoughts on Today

2010-01-26T15:56:00.004-05:00

FOR TODAY... from Tracy's Daybook
Outside my window...the neighbor trimming the apple trees, precariously perched out on a limb - Oh God I hope he doesn't fall - don't look
I am thinking...That tonight's gonna be a good night, tonight's gonna be a good good night, can you feel it?
I am thankful for... my husband & sons
I am wearing...Black work-out pants, Tony Schumacher T-Shirt, Steelers sweatshirt
I am remembering...last night and dinner with Tricia
I am going... to ACE's wrestling practice & then working out
I am currently reading...Picture Perfect by Jodi Picoult
I am hoping... that I can start making cards again
On my mind... Lots!
Noticing that...I am very selfish
Pondering these words... Pain is weakness leaving the body
From the kitchen... pizza & green bean fries
Around the house... putting away laundry and going through school paperwork
One of my favorite things...A cozy house with candles burning, cookies in the oven & snuggling

From my picture journal...

http://thesimplewomansdaybook.blogspot.com/

Everyday Math - Ugghhh

2010-01-26T07:50:00.003-05:00

Aidan is doing "Everyday Math". For those of you who don't know what it is, sorry I can't help you.

The only thing I can say about it is - it works. I don't know how or why, but it works.

So last night he has homework in which he has to cut something out of the homework paper, fold & glue it to make a shape. Then he has to answer questions about the shape.

The first question is: What is this 3-D shape called?

Thank God they send home an answer book at the beginning of the year. Why it's a pentagonal prism of course. At this point I'm thinking "Aidan's 3rd grade math homework is going to kick my butt again!"

Question 2: What is the shape of the base?

A-HA!! I know this one! It's a pentagon!

Question 3: What is the shape of the other faces?

Once I again - I know!! I know!! A rectangle.

Question 4: How many edges does in have?

We use a marker to count the edges...The suspense is killing me! It has 15 edges.

Question 5: How many vertices does the shape have?

Tracy's question: What the heck are vertices?

After a quick consult of the book, I discover that vertices are corners. My little math whiz says there are 10 vertices, five on the bottom and five on the top.

Thank goodness somebody pays attention in class because it sure isn't me!

Mom! It's Vegas Gold!

2010-01-24T11:11:00.004-05:00

Aidan wrestled in a tournament yesterday at Schuylkill Valley High School.

Although he didn't do his best, he came away with a new set of headgear. Which he really liked when he saw them.

The reality of new headgear was not that great, but I digress. He went out to look at the merchandise table with his father.

I liked the t-shirts they had. One said "It is better to have wrestled and lost than it is to play basketball". Another "Pain is weakness leaving the body".

He came back with a new set of headgear. Which he apparently needed.

The first thing he said to me when he came back up in the bleachers is "Mom, they're Vegas Gold!".

For those of you that don't know, Governor Mifflin's school colors are maroon and gold. But not just any gold - Vegas Gold.

So Aidan was thrilled to have headgear that color.

Aunt Merry will be so proud.

Why is it ALWAYS my fault?

2010-01-21T07:06:00.010-05:00

This morning Austin is not going to school. He is sick for the second day in a row.

Maybe it's the cynical side of me that doesn't believe him. I had to be a pretty good actress to get my mother to let me stay home from school. He says his stomach hurts & he feels like he is going to throw up. All Jerry has to hear is "throw-up". He turns on a heel and promptly exits Austin's room.

Then Jerry comes back into our bedroom, wakes me to tell me that Austin isn't going to school again today.

Okay fine. Fast forward to 7:00 am when it is time to get Aidan up for school. He has been battling a sinus cold and is not sympathetic to his brother at all.

I ask him how is feeling this morning. He says "Well I still have a cold!". I ask him does he feel bad? He says "No, not really.". I then ask him what he wants to wear this morning. He proceeds to go on a minute long rant about his brother staying home from school again and maybe if he went to school his stomach wouldn't hurt.

I tell him that I am not going to stay in his room and have him lecture me about why his brother should go to school. He can get himself ready and then come downstairs and get his own breakfast to which he replies "Fine! I'm not coming down and I am not going to school!".

I can hear him upstairs getting ready and he has plenty of time to eat before the bus comes but I am waiting for the meltdown from last week about not having enough time to eat his cereal.

Oh wait, here he is. Dressed & getting his breakfast. "Sorry Mom for yelling at you" he says.

I am still going to work regardless of the fact if he is going or not. They are making Cheese Dreams especially for me today to have with tomato soup. Oh-My-God I love them.

Living Away from "Home"

2010-01-20T14:40:00.003-05:00

I wasn't really sure what to title this post.

I moved away from Harbor Creek, PA in February of 1992. Jerry and I had gotten engaged at Christmas and I thought the logical thing to do was move to where he was. He had a full time job & I was anxious to move away. Or so I thought.

I was madly in love with the first guy who loved me for me. I didn't really think about what would happen if I lived away from my family.

Well let me just say that I was so homesick for Firman Road that all I had to do was think about my parents and grandparents and I was a mess.

Whenever I would call home to cry, my mother would give me the tough love speech. "You chose to move there" she would say. So in essence she was telling me to suck it up.

I was not happy that she didn't coddle me and tell me that she and Daddy would make everything better and I could come back home. Nope she told me what I needed to hear. God I hate it when she's right!

I was a big girl and I would have to learn to make a home with Jerry and someday our children here in Berks County.

I envisioned a life like I had. But that didn't happen here in Brecknock.

What did happen here was I learned to be independent. I like my little, simple life.

I don't know if my parents ever minded that their neighbors were their relatives. I mean I loved the fact that I could go next door & always have someone to play with or walk in through the vineyards & orchard and see my grandparents any time I wanted. But, can you ever really get away?

I do not like that my children will not have a relationship with their grandparents like I did with mine. Don't get me wrong, they love Saba & Shamma with all their hearts but they can't just go next door & see them. It takes a little planning.

But maybe it will encourage them to be a little more independent than I was. I hated being away from home because it forced me take responsibility for myself & my family. And you know what? I was OKAY! There are times when it is tough. When there programs at school and sporting events that because of the distance, Saba and Shamma can't be here. They always make sure that the boys know that they wish they could be, but life happens for everyone and you just learn to cherish every moment you have with them and not take them for granted.

I thank my parents for their tough love. I know as a parent myself I hate when I can't help the boys, when they have to learn something "the hard way". But that's what my parents did for me.

They made me learn something the hard away. And I thank them for that.

I Am Thankful

2010-01-19T07:35:00.004-05:00

I was going to write about the laziness that is becoming an epidemic with the Y chromosomes in my household.

But as I wrote about it, I started to feel bad. They can't help it.

So today I am going to write about some of the things I am thankful for, instead of bitterly complaining about the lack of intuition that exists in Bullfrog Hollow.

I am thankful for:

The changes in the seasons. I always think how boring it would be if it just stayed warm & green all year long. I love the changes in the landscape & even the temperature. I think the seasons changing in sure evidence of the existence of God.
A new lesson at Monday morning Bible study. We are now studying "Enough - Faith in the Midst of Financial Crisis".
My husband. Even though he drives my psycho most days, I am forever thankful for his unconditional love & his willingness to do what ever makes me happy (except move to Erie :-p).
Austin, my 14 year going on 30 year old son. How did this happen? You went from being a little boy to a young man all in the blink if an eye. You are trying to find your way to a mark on this world & I am so proud of you.
Aidan my 9 year-old Tasmanian Devil. Your crazy antics & devilish persona are a constant source of laughter. I always tell you how boring life would be without you. I truly mean that.
My parents - always there - no matter what - with various kinds of support. I can't say how grateful I am.
My sisters. There is a bond between sisters that men will never understand. Jerry always wants to know how we can be so mad at each other one second & then turn around and be laughing and carrying on. I don't know. I'm just glad that they are mine.

So that's it - for today. I am thankful. That's what I'll be thinking about instead of all the chores that aren't getting done.

ACE's Wrestling Tournament at Daniel Boone

2010-01-16T21:28:00.009-05:00

A Sunday tournament? You bet. There is no school tomorrow, so why not?

We got up bright and early and headed out the door to Daniel Boone High School.

Fifteen Mifflin wrestlers participated in this open tournament and it was crazy. The gymnasium was packed with wrestlers & their support staffs (parents, siblings, coaches, etc.).

Aidan had weighed in on Thursday night & he weighed 70.5 pounds, which means he had to wrestle in the 73 pound bracket.

It was kind of confusing with the way the brackets were set up. He needed to win his first match or he was done for the day. I told him this & he was not affected by it at all. He just said "Okay" and I left it at that.

His first match he won with a pin. Now on to match number two.

He lost this match by decision. Wrestlers have found it is very hard to pin Aidan. His shoulder joints are so loose & his pain tolerance is very high.

He was not upset by this loss. He wanted his customary snack after wrestling and then sat in the bleachers listening to his iPod & hanging out with the other wrestlers.
His third match he won by decision. At this point I realize we are in this for the long haul.
He was ready to take on his fourth competitor who he thought was a kid from Brandywine. Well, someone screwed up the brackets & he ended up wrestling the kid who beat him in the second round.

Jerry said you could tell he was defeated before he even wrestled the kid. The "look" in his eyes. One of our coaches even went over to the scoring table & said that this wasn't the kid that Aidan was supposed to be wrestling, but they said it was who they had on their papers.

Aidan lost to the boy & after the match was over, Jerry went to the head table to plead Aidan's case. Well, those guys from Daniel Boone didn't know who they were dealing with. They WERE wrong (and we found out later it wasn't the first time) and Aidan got fourth place. Another trophy for his collection.

He was pretty happy with it.

I do want to say a special thank you to our friend Steph Dotterer. When Aidan came off the mat after he lost that fourth match. he was upset. He was sitting behind Steph. She turned around & started talking to him. She said "Aidan, did you try your hardest?" to which he answered "Yes.". She said "Now look me in the eyes. If you went out on that mat and tried your hardest and didn't give up, then you have nothing to be upset about. You did your best and that's all that matters.". And just like that, the tears stopped & he was okay.

Jerry, Shamma, me - we have all tried this with him. But coming from Steph - he believed it. She said it not because she had to. Which is what he thinks about the rest of us. So thanks Steph for making my little boy feel better.

How Do You Explain...

2010-01-16T09:42:00.003-05:00

That it's okay to lose?

We are constantly surrounded by images of the "winners". No one ever gets heralded for losing.

And yet I am supposed to try to make my 9 year-old feel okay about losing his wrestling matches last night.
He was discouraged. He cried (which he hates to do) and then tried to justify one of the losses saying "It wasn't even my match! I just wrestled the kid because they asked me to".

Then he told us that he wasn't wrestling anymore. He didn't care. He was done. He still had one more scheduled match. One of the last matches of the evening.
I just let him go. Didn't coddle him - just let him be. He was so pathetic sitting there on the side of the mat with a tear rolling down his cheek. It is so hard for me not wrap him up in my arms in tell him "It' s okay buddy. You did your best & that's all that matters". He doesn't want to hear that. He just wants to be left alone -or so I think.

Maybe I should ask him what he wants me to do when he is upset after he loses.
He will probably say "I don't know Mom...Go and get me a snack?"
Today he is over his losses of last evening. He is laying in our bed, watching a movie in his pajamas. I casually mentioned that he has a tournament tomorrow (because I didn't want to spring it on him Sunday morning as we were headed out the door) and he didn't have much of a reaction.
Hopefully tomorrow he will be focused (as focused as a 9 year-old can be) and ready to do his best.

Morning Struggles

2010-01-15T07:34:00.008-05:00

I know I have two children who are wired completely different. One like Jerry, one like me.

When it comes to getting up in the morning, I hate rousting the youngest one from his peaceful slumber to get ready to go to school.

Jerry wakes Austin at six a.m. - he does not complain just promptly gets up, showers and goes about his grooming rituals.

He then goes downstairs, turns on Sports Center & might have something for breakfast. Then watches the clock for 6:45 and goes upstairs. brushes his teeth, makes his bed, comes back down, gets his book bag & watches for the bus.

Our verbal interaction this morning was "Morning Mom. It's Friday.". Then before he goes out the door, I get a "Love you Mom" and off goes my eighth grader.

I have been trying to be super sweet & kind when I get Aidan up for school. I always try a "Aidan, it's 7:05, time to get up", Followed by a "What do you want to wear to school today?". All of this is said in a sickening sweet voice because in my mind I think "Who could have a bad day with a send off like this to school?". I ask him what he would like for breakfast & this morning he answered by pulling his blanket up over his head & rolling away from me.

So I came back downstairs, made my morning cup of coffee & contemplated my day.

A few minutes later I went back upstairs I said "Aidan it's 7:26" to which he screamed at me a whole line "Ohmygodit's7:30 youdidn'twakemeup howamIgoingtoeatbreakfast Idon'thaveenoughtime."

He got dressed, came downstairs and continued his tirade. "You're a jerk. You know it takes me a long time to eat & if I don't eat I will be starving!".

I explained to him that I tried to get him up earlier, but he wouldn't get up. This was not my fault.

He said he wasn't eating. He screamed some more. He showed me. He got his cereal down. Yelled "Where's the milk?" (use the one in the door, don't open the new one) and then proceeded to eat his cereal.

He ate (in record time according to him I'm sure) and then went upstairs made his bed & brushed his teeth.

Came back down & got all his school stuff out & said "Sorry Mom for yelling at you".

I am so glad I didn't fire back when he was ranting & raving. I usually do that and end up beating myself up for the rest of the day telling myself that I have ruined his day at school, I am a terrible parent.

I just sent him out the door with an "I love you. Have a great day. I will see you at lunch." Just like any other "normal" day.

Why do we have to go through all this drama? Why can't we go from point A (Aidan it's time to get up) to point B (Have a great day, I love you) without all this crap in between.

I keep this picture up in the study to remind me of the sweet boy he is. Even when he is being a stubborn, willful minded little crapper.

Aidan & his bed-making skills

2010-01-13T07:52:00.006-05:00

With the new year came a new chore chart for both of the boys.

Jerry & I decided that they both want cash each week & they are going to have to do their fair share around the house in order to get it.

We compiled a chart of daily, weekly and monthly chores that both of them must complete in order to get their scratch.

We pay them one dollar for each year that they have graced us with their presence here on earth. You may think that's a lot, but if I don't have to sweep the kitchen every day, clean the toilet a couple times a week & pick up after the dogs in the yard - then it's well worth it. I don't want the boys to be under the false assumption that money is just given to you. They are going to have to earn it.

They have both been doing chores for an allowance for some time now but they are getting older & that brings with it cell phones, iTunes & other money sucking inventions that they just can't live without.

Some of Austin's dividends come back to us to pay for his cell phone. Unlimited texting comes at a price.

Aidan uses his cash in whatever way he chooses. It usually ends up with some crappy little cheap toy that satisfies his instant gratification need & then is promptly broken, lost and/or does not fulfill his long term satisfaction & he is griping about it less than 24 hours later.

One of the chores we added to Aidan's list was making his bed.

Imagine my surprise when I went upstairs to find a replica of my mother's bed making skills. I asked him this morning "Why do you make your bed with the top folded down like that? Did you help Shamma make the bed at her house?". "No." he replied. "I just like doing it that way."

That's my Aidan. It's always got to be his way...Maybe with a little subliminal help from his Shamma.

Working Out

2010-01-11T14:41:00.002-05:00

I have started working out. Lifting weights, riding a stationary bike, doing the elliptical. All this so I don't look like a troll for my sister's wedding in July.

Since I have lost so much weight, the under sides of arms look like Jello. I am not even kidding.

I purposely look for shirts with longer sleeves. Sleeveless - forget it. I would sooner wear a sweatshirt in 90 degree heat. A bathing suit - I HATE to wear one.

For my sister's wedding I am wearing a dress with spaghetti straps. I am mortified about how my arms will look in this dress. I refuse to let it get me down so I am trying to be proactive about it & firm up my arms & while I'm at it, why not my legs & abs?

We have a weight machine & I am going to use it every day. I also use the bike & elliptical at the high school while Aidan is at wrestling practice on Tuesday & Thursday. I have the new "Your Shape" program for the Wii & as soon as Austin gets his freakin' PS3 in his own room, I will be doing that as well.

The fantastic thing is, my husband & son are also going to lift & Jerry has been watching what he eats & is going to try to lose some weight.

So, I have six months to tone up. I want guns like Kelly Ripa. I am not going to fret about my abs because after all the surgeries I have had, my stomach looks like a road map. That's okay though. If I can tighten everything up, I will be a happy girl.

Jerry says if I am as obsessed with getting fit as I am with cleaning I will be toned up in no time. We shall see...

ACE's Mohawk

2010-01-08T09:59:00.003-05:00

So Aidan got his hair cut the Wednesday before Christmas.

We went to Great Clips in Morgantown & he was deciding the whole way there what "style" he should get. "I guess I'll get a mohawk" he said with a half begrudgingly attitude.

It's like I force him to get one.

I could care less how they each get their hair cut. "IT'S JUST HAIR" I exclaim to people who think that some radical form of hair expression is going to ruin their child's chances of getting into an Ivy League school.

Austin & Aidan have both had mohawks at some point in their lives. Austin started with his in second grade, thanks to NHRA driver Scotty Cannon. Austin loved him those six long years ago.

Austin has matured with his haircut, now opting for the "shaggy" look which most mothers groan about, but I'm still sticking to my "it's just hair" mantra & as long as he keeps it washed, I don't care.

Aidan however still loves him some mohawk & quite honestly, it fits his personality. He's a rebel, could care less what anyone else thinks & it keeps people guessing about him.

We'll see if this is any indication of the future. Until then, I will love me some mohawk - on Aidan.

Aidan's Thursday

2009-12-11T07:31:00.007-05:00

Aidan had a rough day Thursday. I got a phone call from the school nurse in the afternoon. She called to tell me that Aidan was there in her office, he was feeling dizzy every time he looked down. She said he had fallen off of a scooter in gym class and hit the back of his head on the gym floor. I got to speak with him & he said he would tough it out until the end of the school day & when I asked him if he wanted me to come pick him up so he wouldn't have to endure the 40 minute bus ride home he said "No Mom, that's okay, I can ride the bus".

Jerry & I talked to him when he got home & he was okay. We went & got a bite to eat & then headed over to the auxiliary gym for wrestling practice

While practicing, he accidentally got hit in the face - with another kids head. Aidan told me all night & then this morning "He didn't mean to do it Mom. It was just an accident".

Left side looking at the picture

A little swelling & bruising

A better shot of the battle bruise

When he looked in the mirror last night & saw it - he said "AWESOME!".

I think he's afraid that his Shamma & Aunties are gonna come over here & open up a can of whoop ass.

Snow=BEAUTIFUL!

2009-12-06T09:58:00.008-05:00

Our first snow fall of the year has been breathtaking! Jerry went around this morning & took all of these pictures.

The patch of woods next to our house

A pond on Maple Grove Road

Schlouch Rd.

Ziegler Rd.

Rt. 625

Rt. 625 - top of Trostle's Hill

Rt. 625 bottom of Trostle's Hill

Rt. 625

Mountain across the street

Pond next to our home

Woods behind our house

Austin Ebersole - Pre-Algebra Student of the Quarter

2009-12-02T07:50:00.003-05:00

Okay, so for those of you who know our eldest son, you know that he struggled in Pre-Algebra in seventh grade. Imagine our surprise when he came home with this yesterday:

I'm not sure what prompted the change, but it seems to be going better for him this year.

P.S. I wanted to take his picture with the certificate and he said "Uh, no thanks Mom." I guess that's the almost 14 year-old boy for ya.

My New Christmas Ornament

2009-11-23T07:44:00.004-05:00

My niece Amy and her husband Ryan went to Florida this past week. Well the sweet things that they are, they brought me back a souvenir. I was so surprised!

We got to see the video they took while on safari & a couple other places. We got to see it at Pop-Pop's last night. It looked really great! Jerry & I looked at some of their pictures, but it's kind of hard to look at that many pictures on a little digital camera screen. Hopefully we will be able to look at them on a T.V. when we are there for Thanksgiving.

They brought us back a grapefruit & an orange, the boys got these HUGE Jawbreaker lollipops and I got....

THIS ADORABLE SNOWMAN ORNAMENT! I ran to give both of them a hug - it is so freakin' cute! I can't wait to put it on my tree.

Many thanks to both of them for thinking of me on their vacation!

Lazy Sundays

2009-11-22T12:10:00.003-05:00

The boys spent the night at Merry's last night, so Jerry & I had another night to ourselves. We went to Grill Fire Company Turkey Raffle. Once again, we did not win a turkey, but we did have a fun time!

We took Merry along with us (Julie & Scott were in charge of the boys), had a couple of cocktails & then were home a little after midnight. I love having grown-up nights!

This morning we went to get the boys & then came home and made a Coconut Custard Pie (a test run for Thursday). I am also going to make another batch of Christmas Cookies to freeze.

All my boys are in the living room watching a movie - laughing & having some quality male bonding time. I do love a lazy Sunday - even if it's not that lazy for me!

ACE Parent-Teacher Conference

2009-11-19T07:33:00.004-05:00

We had our conference with Aidan's teacher this past Monday afternoon. It was great!

Aidan's teacher is a wonderful woman who is a really great fit for him. She is young, fun & doesn't put up with any monkey business which is exactly what he needs. He is the type of kid - you give him an inch & he'll take - a thousand miles.

She showed us his report card - which he did really well - three A's, two B's & his math progress report (in today's times, they do not get a grade in math - just a bunch of different skill sets in which they are placed in either beginning, developing or secure). He is right where he is supposed to be in all of those.

His teacher then told us that Aidan is very confident - especially in math. I could of told her that. The kid has been able to be the banker in Monopoly for three or four years now. He can also make change in his head when we go to the grocery store and he buys two packs of gum.

She also said he is very competitive. I don't even think she's seen him play football - or wrestle!

He is doing really well in third grade - can't believe the first quarter is over already!

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2009-11-08T21:31:00.002-05:00

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Hey All!

2009-11-04T07:36:00.003-05:00

How's everybody doing? The Ebersole Family is fantastic! We have rolled into November with very little scars & love this season.

We are officially done with football. Aidan was done this past Sunday & Austin has his last football game Tuesday, November 3 at Pottsville (which is right next door to Yuengling!)

Aidan's team didn't fare too well on Sunday, but he still had a good time playing in the mud at Exeter. Austin's team beat Pottsville very handily & they were pretty psyched about that. On Thursday, they will be having a pizza party for the end of their season.

I have included several pictures of my boys - just so you can see them in action.

Austin - #13 - in the middle

Pottsville Stadium

Aidan's Halloween costume creation - don't ask because I have no idea

So, that's about it for us. Just enjoying life & trying not to get TOO crazy!

The past week - or so...

2009-10-08T14:31:00.011-04:00

We have had a very sad week here at our home. My grandpa, Pop Myers died last Thursday at the age of 82.

On our way home, right around Cook's Forest, we got behind this motorcycle rider. Upon closer inspection, we discovered that this"tough Harley guy" has a pug dog, with a jacket on, strapped into a milk crate on the back of his bike. Nothing says "Bad Ass" to me like a dude on a bike with a pug.

We traveled home to Erie County for the calling hours & funeral service. It was so good to be home & be able to be there for my Dad.

These are the flowers that Jerry's family sent to the funeral home. They were beautiful.

The following are pictures from the luncheon we had after the funeral service.

Austin with Little E - making him laugh. He is such a good baby, he just grows too darn fast.

Austin making his goofy face.

And yet again.

My Dad, his sister Lin, brother Ron & sister Deb

Rick Stoner & Charlie

Andy & Jessie practicing with Eli

Here are the four Myers grandsons watching Cars on Saba & Shamma's bed.

Monday afternoon when we got back to my parents home, we decided to go over to the pumpkin patch to get some pumpkins to bring back to Berks County.

Below are some of the gorgeous pictures my husband took of our family's grapes & vineyard

And here we are, Tricia, Jesse, Steve, Maggie, Austin, Aidan, Charlie & I picking pumpkins (Jerry is the photographer).

And here is my sweet nephew with his very own pumpkin!

So, even though it was a very sad reason for our impromptu trip home, I was so glad to see everyone!

Okay - so I know it's been a while...

2009-10-08T08:45:00.002-04:00

I know, I know, I haven't updated our blog in a REALLLLLY long time. Fact of the matter is, the Ebersole family has been extremely busy this summer & fall. Between vacationing in Erie for three weeks, Potter County for 10 days, major house renovations, football practice, back to school, football games, I could go on & on - but I won't!

It is my intention to update at least once a week (with pictures hopefully!) so I can keep everyone updated as to what havoc the Ebersole Clan is wreaking upon south-eastern Pennsylvania!

So I intend on posting again this afternoon - with pictures - so watch for it!

I am going to make a Caramel Pear Pie this weekend & I'm going to take a cue from another blog that I follow & post step by step pictures & instructions. I love Amanda's blog!

Sorry it has been so long - I've really missed it!

Stick Figure Family

2009-04-30T16:57:00.001-04:00

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Boehringer's 2009 - Visit 3

2009-04-02T10:03:00.003-04:00

Went to Boehringer's this past Saturday before we went to Weaver Nut Company. We went with Tricia & Kallie.

Found out that you can buy a whole pickle for 30 cents. But apparently is super secret because it's not even on the menu.

I had my usual beef barbeque & small orange drink & then had a scoop of pineapple ice cream on a sugar cone. It was fantastic!

Ebersole's eating at Boehringer's - "3"

Where's Aidan?

2009-04-01T18:51:00.005-04:00

Aidan had a rough day on Tuesday. Therefore everyone had a rough day. What's that old saying? "If Aidan ain't happy, nobody's happy."

He came home from school, we were all a bunch of jerks and then he stormed upstairs to his room. I went upstairs to talk to him after a while & couldn't find him.

When I finally did locate him, I couldn't help but laugh.

See his foot sticking out of his stuffed animal bin?

ADE LAX Tournament at Owen J. Roberts 03/29/2009

2009-04-01T17:17:00.006-04:00

Austin participated in the Spring Thaw Lacrosse Tournament at Owen J. Roberts High School this past Sunday.

Team Photo

Austin on the right all geared-up.

It was a dreary, overcast & rainy day, but they still played three games. Austin got to play in the third game & did really well. They actually won that game & I'm sure it's because he played!

Austin is at the top - center.

Austin is the second from the right in white (in the middle).

Austin is the one in the middle with his stick up in the air.

#39 on the right

We had to be there at 8:30 am. He had games at 9:30, 10:30 & 12:30. We tail-gated with the other parents in between the 10:30 & 12:30 game. It was a lot of fun!

ADE LAX Scrimmage vs. Holy Name 03/27/2009

2009-04-01T14:17:00.004-04:00

Austin has his first lacrosse scrimmage against Holy Name this past Friday night. He got to play about six minutes.

He said that it was harder on him for those six minutes than an entire football practice. That's because they constantly run. Definitely not for me!

He is number 39 & in the middle of both pictures.

I think I may understand this lacrosse stuff by the time he graduates from high school. As the wise Kallie Ruhf put it "I get it. Hit each other with the stick"!

I do enjoy it.

Austin's FCS Third Quarter Project

2009-03-27T07:26:00.006-04:00

Dare I say it? Austin is better at sewing than me? Oh wait - I don't sew!

Austin had to make a locker caddy for Family & Consumer Science this quarter. He had to pick out what color he wanted the material to be, pick a design for the middle pocket & choose if he wanted a mirror or not (what boy DOESN'T want a mirror?!?)

He started practicing using the sewing machine by stitching straight lines in paper. The one day he came home and stated "Mom, I learned how to put thread on a bobbin!". That's the little round thing - right?

He then graduated to a real honest-to-goodness piece of material.

I didn't hear much about his progress until he brought it home on Thursday.

I told Austin that my experience in the then named Home Economics class - the sewing part - was not good. I made a wrist pin cushion (which was a total flop) and a pair of pot holders (which were an even bigger flop!).

I thought a locker caddy was a great idea. He could hang it up in his locker & then organize all his locker inventory in it. Well apparently my eldest son does not share my passion for organization. He brought the locker caddy home yesterday & stated "Mom, I don't ever go to my locker - so I don't need this!".

He did a fabulous job on his project & got a 96% on it. He pointed out some of his sewing mistakes that he thought he made (I, of course, thought it was perfect) and told me I could use it or he would put it his room.

It is big enough to put a small Post-It note pad in the top, 4 pencils in the middle pocket & maybe a pack of gum in the bottom.

Top

Middle - Pen/Pencil Pocket

Bottom Gum/Calculator Pocket

I love it & am going to try to find a use for it downstairs.

Any suggestions?

Boehringer's 2009

2009-03-22T18:04:00.003-04:00

I have to say that I love Spring. The flowers are awakening from their winter sleep. The air is starting to warm up. Boehringer's opened on Friday.
When we saw this sign lit up on Friday night after lacrosse practice - it was an hallelujah moment.

I absolutely love this place. From their hot dogs with barbecue to the fresh-cut french fries to the homemade ice cream. It is fabulous & a sure sign that spring is right around the corner.

I have had the opening day marked my calendar for a few weeks now & we planned our weekend around Friday, March 20. I am going to keep track of how many times we eat there this year.

Friday we went and had hot dogs, fries, birch beer & Coca-Cola. Jerry had peanut butter ice cream and Aidan had black raspberry. Austin & I were too full from our meals to attempt eating ice cream.

Today we went & had California cheeseburgers, double cheeseburger subs, hot dogs, fries, root beer & Coca-Cola. I saved some room and had a scoop of chocolate butter fudge on a sugar cone, Austin and Aidan both had a scoop of peanut butter.

California Cheeseburger

Fresh-Cut Fries

Aidan wanted to know why we didn't go on Saturday. Good question!

The other bonus of eating at Boehringer's - the prices! Our family of four can eat there for less than $20.00.

We had to eat in the car both times we were there because it is still fairly cold out (about 55 degrees). Once the weather warms up though, they have picnic tables available to sit at by the little stream that runs behind it.

So, for those of you keeping score at home: Ebersole's eating at Boehriner's - "2".

And for those of you planning on a trip to good old Berks County sometime between now and mid-September, I'm sure you will get to experience the phenomenon known as Boehringer's.

ACE - Display My Art 2009

2009-03-16T07:00:00.004-04:00

Each year, the P.T.O. at Brecknock Elementary has a fundraiser called Display My Art.

Through art class, they draw a picture which is then sent away to the Display My Art company and made into adorable gifts such as Christmas ornaments, tote bags and puzzles.

When Aidan was in kindergarten, he drew a self portrait. In first grade, he drew a fish. This year he drew a duck. It is so cute & this has got to be my favorite fundraiser of the year.

He must get his drawing ability from his father, because I am hard pressed to draw a stick figure.

Mustang Open 2009

2009-03-02T21:02:00.003-05:00

The 20th Annual Mustang Open Wrestling Tournament was held this past Saturday, February 28.

This was Aidan's first year to wrestle at the Open. Children from all over the area come to wrestle & it is a good day of competition.

This was the first year that the tournament was conducted in a "Round Robin" format & without going into great detail, it guaranteed that he was going to get at least four matches.

The first match Aidan beat the boy by decision 5-3. Aidan made the little boy cry (which happens a lot in this age group of wrestlers) and also gave him a nose bleed (also very common). I hate to see the little ones cry, especially when it is my son that makes them do it.

The second match was a forfeit.

The third match he pinned the boy in 14 seconds.

The fourth match was won by pinning the kid. Jerry got very emotional after this win. It made me smile in knowing how proud he was of Aidan.

The fifth match was for first place. We had been told that the little boy that Aidan was going up against was a very good wrestler. He was also undefeated up to the final match, so this was going to determine first place. For the first two periods, Aidan was down in points. In the third period, the young man's coach had them start in the neutral position and Aidan shot for his legs & had a take down which gave him two points and then almost pinned the boy which caused his opponent to cry. The ref stopped the match for an injury time out & Aidan was awarded three back points which put him leading by three points with 11 seconds to go. Aidan was on top because had control before the time out & all he had to do was hold on and that he did. Aidan won by a decision of 8-5.

This is the bracket that hung on the wall. Each time Aidan won, they went out & circled his name. As you can see, his opponent (Sola) was also undefeated up until the final match.

This is his gold medal alongside his name.

And here is the champ with his medal. When I see this picture, I can't believe this sweet little face can be so fierce on the mat.

Funny Boy

2009-02-05T07:28:00.004-05:00

Aidan has been battling the stomach/cold virus for the past couple weeks. He missed two and a half days of school, slept a whole bunch & was crankier than usual.

Jerry went up to school and got the school work that Aidan missed (Aidan was totally psyched about that!) and after a little persuasion, he did it.

He had the customary math, reading & spelling and then the teacher sent home a paper about groundhogs. The paper had a story on it and then several questions on the bottom about weather, groundhog habitat and the food groundhogs eat.

At the bottom of the paper, it posed a question to its young reader. "Do you think animals can predict the weather? Why or why not?"

Aidan thought about this for a moment and then answered "Yes. I think animals can predict the weather."

I asked him "Why do you think that? ".

He said "Because they have instincts.".

And then he wrote his answer on the back of the paper.

"Yes, I think animals can foretell the weather because they have I-N-S-T-I-N-K-S."

After I suppressed my laughter, I got him to erase his faux pas & rewrite it the correct way.

Funny Boy.